im a 25 yr old man, never passed highschool and stuck with a job that i hate doing but have to, to get money...now..i dont know whats wrong with people these days..but im a nice guy..i say hi, do alot of things for other people..i dont know if its my personality thats just too nice..or my facial expression that looks like so evil...looks arent everything..cant judge a book by its cover...people just think im really evil deep inside..like i did something wrong..but cmon...i only have 2 friends...one french guy..dont understand what the heck hes saying..but hes my best friend in way...and i got this female friend..i see her once a week...cause she works alot..have no idea where she works..but alot..and umm..yeah thats about it..whats going with me..is there something wrong with me?..
2006-08-18 12:01:41 · 17 answers · asked by DequaN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont change ur personality for any 1 and for any reason cause if some 1 not respect u then he didnt deserve to be ur friend
2006-08-18 12:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Navigator 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No there's nothing wrong with u sweetie,I don't know y u feel that way, u shouldn't care what people think about u, people say I look mean because I don't smile but like I tell them u can take it or leave it,so what u didn't finish high school some of these famous people in the world haven't and look at them, but you're only 25 u have time to go back to school if u choose to I did and I'm 32. u need to get out more go to the mall, to the park and meet people and let them know what this 25yr old man is really about, and you'll see things a lot better, stop worrying about what people say u woke up this morning didn't u? take care
2006-08-18 19:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by innocent030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with you. People are always judging people by the outside, and though it's not right, it does happen. Why don't you try joining a club or group where people have the same hobbies and interests as you do? I'm sure there are a ton of places you can try to meet people in which you have something in common. Don't worry, from the sounds of it, you seem like a nice guy who is trying to treat others right. With your attitude, i'm sure you will make friends and meet people in time. Just take some comfort in the fact that you're doing the right thing, and disregard those that judge you merely on the basis of your outside appearance. You don't want to be friends with those types of people anyway, they're not worth it. Hang in there! :)
2006-08-18 19:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, not many people talk to anyone anymore. If you don't have a computer, a sidekick, or some other form of technology, you're sort of out of the loop unless you physically take your butt out somewhere. Have you tried that yet? I mean doing something, like joining up on a bowling league, baseball, basketball, etc. Something is better than nothing and once you start interacting with people, they'll see the real you and you'll start to make new friends. If you don't know how to start something like this, contact your local YMCA...with them you'll be on an even playing field...everyone is new. Or try a community college. Take a class on something you've always wanted to learn...you are guaranteed to meet new people their too. Good luck to you honey and try not to be so hard on yourself...it's like this for alot of people.
2006-08-18 19:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think anything is wrong with you. i also have that evil look and people think im mean before they even speak to me. im one of the nicest people around and will do anything for anybody also. im telling you it might be just the way you look. or some people out there arent as nice as you are. maybe you should conversating a little more with people and if they still dont like you OH WELL....as long as you know that you are good person thats all that matters.
2006-08-18 19:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, like the extra details you've provided, people are complicated. I think that what you should do is just ignore the people that go against you. Go around, don't try to take them all down. it never works that way. It sounds like your a nice person, but some people are turned off by a nice, verging on goody 2 shoes attitude, but those are people that will bring you down. Also, go out more, go to bars/clubs on the weekend or something. Just don't get clingy on people,that will turn off a lot of people.
2006-08-18 19:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be somewhat self centered. It's a human trait we all have to an extent. Try to show some interest in your friends. Also not too many people stick around for too long with someone who has no future to speak of. You really have to be more responsible and grow up. Go to school, or a trade school so you will have a future! Good luck. I think you have a personality that could attract people if you can just do some self improvement.
2006-08-18 19:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you try to get to know her a little more find out were she works what she likes you will meet people maybe pick up some hobbies go to church go out and do things your not going to make friends by staying at home asking questions go to the bar and have a beer..lol I'm not trying to run you off or anything but go have some fun i myself move quite often for my job and always meet new people do you have a swimming pool if so go out with a beer in your hand your bound to meet people lol theres nothing wrong with you but let me ask you a question are you shy?
2006-08-18 19:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of your shyness by going out to social evenys more often. Mingle with people. Get away from having a circle around you. Hit up Myspace and make friends there and learn what people like about you.
2006-08-18 19:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by Yahoo answer dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to nite school & get a diploma, it may help you to get a better job. Sometimes pushing yourself on people, so they notice you is a turn off. If your as nice a guy like you say, just be yourself, maybe people will notice ??
2006-08-18 19:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
devil queen is wrong u dont have to change ne thing there is nothing!!! and i mean nothing!!!! wrong with you its somthing wrong with them for judging you before they got a chance to get to kno u. i bet that u are a great person. maybe they are just scared to talk t u b/c they think ur gonna treat them as soon as they walk up to u. thats what all my friends told me after we got to kno each other. maybe u should start going up to them and starting a conversation. but there is nothing wrong with you u are a greatperson if u need a friend ill be your friend!! u can talk 2 me but there is nothing wrong with u ***_your_free_world@hotmail.com u can talk to me and if ppl werent such chickens and so easily intimadated they would talk to u too! i hope this advice helps
2006-08-18 19:16:10 · answer #11 · answered by n2ffn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋