okay im 13 years years and im gay. (yes i am gay!)
i like this guy named tom (like the other question).
And i like it when he fools around with me. But with everything else, i have tried to pretend to be 13 years old. And to solve that, i cut myself to make myself feel better because i have a diffrent pain. I can't tell anyone that im gay except tom because everyone in my neighborhood hates gay people.
I NEED HELP!!!!
2006-08-18 11:46:29 · 7 answers · asked by rich_yu2002 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
So tom is gay to? O.K look being 13 is hard and being gay is hard to. You have choices. You can be in the closet or get a funky attitude about it. Screw what other people think. I would wait a while before coming out of the closet. But you have to stop seeing things as pain. Start enjoy and its fun to be naughty and no one knows it. Lots of people you know are gay in the closet to. Join a sports team and focus your energy on some thing positive.
2006-08-18 11:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find an accepting group of people that you can trust. Maybe you have a family member you can trust, a sister, brother, cousin, aunt? Also, maybe you have some girlfriends at school (I just say girlfriends because I figure girls are generally more accepting of a gay guy than straight men can be). When you are brave enough to be yourself out in the open and face whatever hatred comes your way (and it's scary and you'll have to be really brave to do that, so it's okay if you wait until you are ready) you will notice that more people support you than you ever would have imagined.
Anyway... whatever you do, don't pretend you are something you are not... don't date girls just to pretend to be straight... you don't have to tell anyone you are gay, they might just figure it out or suspect it anyway, but you shouldn't have to deny yourself, though you can choose to remain quiet on the topic.
2006-08-18 18:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to be gay but for you, at 13 years of age, it's it's too early for you to know for sure that you are gay. I myself fooled around with other guys when I was your age but I didn't grow up to be gay. I'm neither lucky or unlucky because of this because like I said, it's OK to be gay. It's the people who hate that have a problem.
2006-08-18 19:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are experienceing so much pain. Unfortunatly given your circumstances you will have much pain ahead of you as the many are not accepting of your lifestyle. I wish you much luck and love.
You need to find someone you can talk to. A counsler at school, a telephone hotline...something. Cutting yourself is bad, I know, becasue I used to do it. I understand the feeling of "a different pain." Though, cutting yourself will not heal the original pain.
Take care of yourself, and find a way to love and accept the situation you are in. I hope that when you are older you find a wonderful love.
2006-08-18 18:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Deana G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u really need to talk to someone professional not because u think u are gay ,but u have other issues .u need more guided advice than yahoo answers.( sorry yahoo answers)
2006-08-18 18:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, you need to be able to let your feelings out so you quit hurting yourself. Go to a counselor. Tell your parents. They will understand in a few. As for your neighbors, tell them to fu*k off. It's no ones business but yours and your family.
2006-08-18 19:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ben h and Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea... stop being gay! you're too young to be gay anyway..
2006-08-18 18:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Luna Winter 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋