Will I regret not having a wedding?

Answer 1

Yes.

even if it's a small ceremony, it's worth it. it's one thing to have vows at city hall or something alone, but to announce it to friends and family and share w/ ur loved ones is something u can never experience at one time, in front of everyone....bringing everyone togeeher.... :)

Answer 2

I have been happily (well, most of the time) married for almost 7 years, and we had a justice of the peace (magistrate) wedding at our local courthouse. We were broke and had no furniture, and we decided being able to live on our own was more important than having a big wedding. If you can manage something small, then go with that, but I don't regret not having a wedding at all....we still have pictures, and we had our family there, and that's all that's really important. :)

Answer 3

Do you mean not having a wedding or not having a big wedding? I don't think that you will miss not having a big wedding.

A small wedding with close family and friends would be nice though. 3 of the last 4 weddings i have been too have been outdoor fun events. Not too expensive. The 4th one was a major spread, big bucks, marriage lasted 13 months.

Answer 4

I think it depends on you. Personally, I've never really thought about a wedding or held it as something that was important to me... the marriage seems much more important. You can always go on a special romantic trip together and I think that is much more special than a wedding where things are stressful... the wedding is something you do more for your friends and relatives it seems... well that is my opinion anyway.

If you've wanted one your whole life and looked forward to that moment, then you might regret not having one.

Answer 5

Decide what is important for you at this time, and go with that gut feeling.

Some people are happy to live with someone without any external commitments and ceremonies, while for others, the celebration and public display satisfies their deepest needs.

Decide what is important for you. Go over what your wedding/relationship dreams used to be years ago. Evaluate if any of those reasons still stand, and are still important to you. Then, do what is **best** for you (and your partner) now, when you are making this decision.

When you know you're doing your best, based on what you know now, and on today's circumstances, you won't have regrets in the future.

Best wishes...

Answer 6

That depends. Will you be spending the money you'd spend on a wedding to buy a home or something like that? Then you are wise. Weddings are expensive these days and last just one afternoon. You can always just have a nice party in your new home and save money, stress and time. Congrats! May God be included in your union and therefore bless it with His love.

Answer 7

girl look if u dont want to have a wedding dont let it get 2 u there had 2 b a reason for it like the money or maybe u werent ready but either way its ur choice nobody on here can tell u what 2 do because dey probably dont know u and what ur going through so its like make it do what it do

Answer 8

did you not have a wedding because of money, or choose to do something smart with the money. if you get married, it only matters that you are in love with that person. the big weddings are nice, but too many people are divorced within two yrs. seen it too many times. a justice of the peace is just as wonderful if yoy are in love

Answer 9

That depends on you. Do you want a wedding ceremony? If you do and you don't have one, then yes, you will regret it.

Answer 10

You will, I can guarantee you, but just because you don't have one now, doesn't mean you can't have one in the future. When you guys make more money, maybe a year, five years, etc. from now, you'll have a nice cozy wedding. Congragulations on the engagement! (I assume)

Answer 11

YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!! I didn't have a wedding even though I had the opportinity, and I still regret it everyday.