I'm a guy in highschool and I think this guy likes me. What would normally be his response if I was to make a pass at him. If he was embaressd responding in front of other people, what are some signs he would do to try to play it off so other people want know he like it when I made a pass at him
2006-08-18 11:31:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I wouldn't do that unless he approached you in private. Some people like to keep their homosexuality under wraps and try to be hardcore in front of their friends. I'm afraid that he and his friends might try to hurt you, but then want to get with you in private. If he really likes you, he'd show it. Don't put yourself out there like that unless you know this dude's for real.
2006-08-18 11:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to risk a possible friendship, by all means bring your megaphone in front of the school assembly and regal them with tales of you affection for this boy. Talk to him in private, but don't be clingy and be cool if he declines your offer. Nothing hurts by asking, but be prepared for him and his friends to know you are gay if you make a pass at him and it goes wrong. Be cautious, but go with your heart. You probably have had clues that he likes you or you wouldn't wonder so much. Go over those clues to make sure they aren't being pulled out of proportion by your own heart/mind. If you still feel he likes you, go for it, babe.
2006-08-18 20:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon Boy Toy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you as well, he will react very favorably and smile a lot and try to get closer. If it is in front of a crowd and he dos not want to come out to the people, he will react negatively. He may get upset or even throw some slurs at you. If you do, do not do it in a group. He may not be ready to come out yet.
2006-08-18 18:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't ask him something that personal in front of his buddies. He'll freak out and you might get punched in the mouth. Get him after school and ask if he'd like to share a pizza.
2006-08-22 06:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, in high school? You should never put him in that spot. There is no telling what he'll do, but you might lose any chance with him. What every you do or say it should be between just you and him!
2006-08-18 19:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THis is a tricky one....Dont miss your oppurtunity to speak to him..If you do you will regret the chance you may have lost later in life..Believe me...Just say whats up to him...Then have at it...
2006-08-18 18:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to chruch God crated man and woman.
2006-08-19 01:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well, first I would see if he's gay first... it can be a messy thing if he's not.
2006-08-18 18:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Dahlias 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you to its smooth sailin :-)
2006-08-18 22:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by mat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋