2006-08-18 11:20:04 · 17 answers · asked by valy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I will tell you ths much that i've been in that situation before where i spent two years being best friends with this guy. I wasn't sure if i told him that i liked him, how it would affect our friendship. I didn't want things to change between us. I kept holding back my feelings. My gut was telling me to reach for him and for two years i didn't until something hit me.. I had a boyfriend a the time and i wanted my bestfriend to meet him officially over lunch and when we got there, it seemed like it was all going well until i saw the look in his eyes accross the table. At first, i thought it was an "Oh, i'm happy for you look." but there was more to it.. Within the next few weeks, i broke up with my boyfriend and told my bestfriend that i was in love with him and i found out that it was mutual. Today, i'm regretting that i didn't do it sooner. Girl, if you truly are in love with this friend of yours and your gut is telling you to go for it, JUST DO IT!
From Natasha
2006-08-18 11:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been friends with this person? do you know any other man/woman couples who used to be friends now they are lovers? when i met my husband i swore to god i was not looking for anyone else he had some gf problems after they broke up and immediatly i dont know why told him he could come to me anytime and talk i gave him my email and IM screen name we talked about EVERYTHING for over 6 months we lived 3000 miles away from each other we had a lot of communication before he moved here and we are still the best of friends now as we were back then before we were serious.make sure you did what we did and this is the absaolute one you want to be with before saying anything yo this person because what will destroy a friendship for good is not being on the same page with each other and not having it work out later
2006-08-18 18:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by oceanlady580 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look
if u tell him be sure that ur relationship will never back as it was..
if u dont care bout this point just GO ahead and tell him..
if ur love is really strong and u really don wanna lose him
tell him simply...becuz u'll never know the situation if u dont try it
and see the reaction..
good luck!
2006-08-18 18:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by $nOwyz-girlY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not yet cause you don't now if he likes you right? so just tell a Friend to ask him is he likes you and if he would want to go out with you and if he does then tell him if he doesn't just tell him later!!!!
2006-08-18 18:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by latina roses123!!!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely!
2006-08-18 18:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should tell him that you love him and ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend but, make sure there is no girlfriend
2006-08-18 18:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by annie0795 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm, u shouldnt use the words love, that might freal him out. just tell him u really do like him, and well, yeah. maybe things will turn out
2006-08-18 18:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am sure that your friend would like to hear that.
2006-08-18 18:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by peterboro_first 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't live a life of regret. Not sure how they will respond, but you can regret it if you don't tell them.
2006-08-18 18:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by chrisyandek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him for sure.
2006-08-18 18:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Nina V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋