im 14 and might be pregent what do i do?

Question

i need help i might be pregent and i dont know how to tell my parents what do i do

Answer 1

You have to talk to your parents
They will be mad
and then they will help you

Answer 2

Hey hun. So, 14 and possibly pregnant huh? Yeah, that is rather young, but you probably didn't plan to get pregnant, it just happened. This same thing happened to a good friend of mine when she was your age. The thing is, your mom will figure it out before too long. She'll know something is up when she doesn't have to buy you any feminine hygiene products two months in a row. That is how my friend's mom found out. Your mom and dad will likely be shocked and bit upset over this, but what's done is done and you'll have to tell them. If you are pregnant, they will sit down with you and come up with a plan on how to raise the child, or adoption or whatever is in the best interest of the baby. If you are not pregnant, this is a good chance to talk to your parents like a young lady and get on some form of birth control since you are already sexually active. Parents are a lot more understanding of the teenage pressures now a day then they were years ago. Your parents will want to help you. You were adult enough to have sex, now be adult enough to tell your parents!

Answer 3

Get the pregnancy test at the drug store. If you are pregnant tell your parents. They love you even though they will be upset. I hope you won't have an abortion. There are plenty of people around who want babies. You could have the baby and give it up for adoption. Or maybe your parents will help you raise the baby . It is their grandchild, after all. Maybe your boyfriend will be responsible and help out financially . If he is also a teenager it may be a while before that happens. I would need to know more about this to give you a good answer. Like, are you and your boyfriend in love with each other? Who knows - maybe you two could end up married. I'll pray for you. If you aren't pregnant, I hope you will take this as a wake up call and stop fooling around. You need to finish your education if you want any kind of future. God loves you.

Answer 4

You just tell them. Say, "Mom, dad, I may have made a mistake. I've been sexually active and I think I may be pregnant." Be prepared for them to hit the ceiling and ask a lot of hard questions. Be honest with your parents. You are still a baby yourself in their eyes. I understand that they will be very upset. There are a lot of health risks for you and the baby (if you are having one) because you are so young. Your parents will have to pay all the bills and care for both of you. Your parents need to know you are sexually active, whether or not you are pregnant. If you think things may get over emotional to a point that you can't handle, ask a clergy or grandparent to help you by being present when you tell your parents.
My last peice of advice for you is that you hereafter stop having sex all together. If you can't do that, please go to family planning and find out how to protect yourself from diseases and get some birth control.
Good luck, honey. Childhood should be more carefree than this.

Answer 5

Buying a pregnancy test can be a little embarassing espacially if someone who may know you sees you. Not a good thing. I'm not sure about other states but in California you can go to a doctor or a pregnency help center to CHECK FIRST. You could have the doctor not tell you parents that is your right in California. Really do you want to tell your parents then find out your not pregnant. My best advice is to make sure first.

If you are pregnant then you need to make a choice. don't let people push you into doing something you don't want to do. If you don't want to keep your baby maybe think about adoption instead of abortion. I know this is hard on you but you do need to grow up and face what happened and make your own decision. Don't let you parents make you do something you don't want to. My mother in her youth was forced to get an abortion by my grandmother and still affects her 35 years later. Try to seek help from a trusted adult who will respect you choices as a young woman. If you can't seek out social services and they should be able to provide help for you in many way. They can even pay for you doc vists if you are pregnant so just hang in there and make your own choices. Regret can be very powerful so really think about it first.

Answer 6

You need to tell your parents right away and take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, you are only 14, and not old or mature enough to care for a baby on your own. You'll need your parents and all the support you can get. Babies require lots of money, most 14 year olds don't have jobs, and even if they do, a paycheck from working at a grocery store or blockbuster is not going to cut it. So guess who will have to pay for your baby....Your Parents!! You need to tell them now!

Answer 7

You need to be honest and discuss this with your parents, sit them down and tell them the truth, if you lie about it, it will only make things worse for everyone involved. Alot of teens who have become pregnant dont tell their parents and the parents in the end say they wish that their child had just come to them in the first place. Your parents can help you make sure that you get in to see a good doctor. Remember now, that you need to take responsibility for the baby that is growing inside of you and part of being responsible is telling everyone the truth.

Answer 8

Boy your screen name says it all...do you really think your gonna look so sexy with all of those stretch marks in your 14 year old skin... what were you thinking. You obviously have no shame to be having sex at 14 and then proudly displaying you are a sexymomma. You need to wake up and fight to have a childhood if you find out you are not. Don't be in a hurry to be an adult and don't be stupid enough again to have sex at 14 it doesn't make you cool and it sure ruins the life of a helpless innocent child. Go find out and then be an adult and tell you were "adult" enough to do the deed. By the way change your screen name to it's bad karma!

Answer 9

You need to sit down with your parents and tell them whats going on as soon as possible. I don't think anyone can really give you advice with this. It is going to be a hard discussion but you can not put it off. You are just a child and you need an adult to help you with this. You need to get tested for pregnancy and STD's. If you are pregnant you need prenatal care and you need to really start thinking about your future. If it turns out that you aren't pregnant you need to be on birth control and I hope this is a wake up call for you.

Answer 10

Your best bet is telling them, that is, your mom if there's one. Cos been a woman and knowing the implications would put her in a better position to know what to do and how to go about it.

Dear, there are doors that can't be locked once they are opened, and you've just opened one. They best you can do is to ensure that nothing bad happens inside the house since the door cant be closed.

I advice you, tell your mom, she'll get mad but, i assure you she'll get over it and seek a possible solution to it. But, first it must be proven that you are pregnant, then any other thing may follow.

Good luck.

Answer 11

Wow.
I was 16 when I got pregnant with my son. It was a very scary time for me. My parents didn't find out and I didn't even find out until I was 5 months! So it was, obviously, too late for an abortion.

they were very hurt, mostly. i thought they were going to kick me out. fortunately, they didn't.
it depends on your homelife too..
you should definitely find out if you are or aren't.
take a home pregnancy test first!
if you 'can' go to your parents or guardian and talk to them about this.. you really need to!

if you can't, again, get a pregnancy test. from there-- you can talk to your doctor first and he/she can help give you some advice.

i'm very glad that it was TOO late to get an abortion. my son is 8 now. It hasn't been easy at all. but he's a blessing to my life and i couldn't imagine my life without him!

goodluck!