I recently ran across an old friend (guy) that is now engaged(gal), we sat around at his place in his shop for a long time talking to catch up...his g/f didn't say more than 2 words to me for the 1st hr but after some other friends came by she was up getting me drinks and telling me that the next time I have to take a piss to let all the girls know...about another hr after that she came over and sat in my chair next to me so we didn't have to try to talk over anyone else... she got around to her point and asked if I would go walking with her at least every monday cuz she doesn't like to go alone, I told her that would be great (at this point I hadn't really been noticing how she was acting, just figured typically norm) then after I agree to walk with her every week, she sorta turned her body half way to face mine and put her arm around me... kept rubbing against me and being flirty... Here's the concern I have: Her fiance is a friend of mine and he's a very jealous person,
2006-08-18 10:38:58 · 28 answers · asked by ? 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm assuming that the way she changed after my other gal friends got there is cuz I think one of them may have told her I have been with women before. Am I totally off on this one? Oh and she is super hot but I'm sure he wouldn't like me doing anything like that with his girl. Just wanna know how to see if I will be leading her on if I do go walking with her.
2006-08-18 10:41:48 · update #1
oh and she was rubbing my back and she kissed all of us girls on the neck, course this was after she had plenty to drink but did it to me first then all the rest of the girls. After she asked if that was alright. All I said was if she thought so. Maybe she's just curious?
2006-08-18 10:46:22 · update #2
I would go for a run with her instead of a walk...that way you'll be further away from her jealous fiance when he finds out
2006-08-21 11:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by lattle4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe when you first met her and she didn't know about you being with women, she thought you were a threat to her. Now maybe she can relax and doesn't think you want her man. And she could just be testing you to see how true a friend you are to her guy and may later have something to hold over your head. Hard to say, guess you could go walking with her a time or too and see how things go. She may just want a friend and maybe more, but time will tell and anytime you feel uncomfortable you can end the walking time.
2006-08-18 10:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by katrina64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he even aware that she likes girls?
if he is aware of this, he's going to have to tough out being a jealous person because there will probably many more girls that come along in the chain you're in... If he's not aware, you should confront her about it. The least that could happen is she will get upset and probably NOT even TELL your friend about it, and she will kinda realize it's not cool to do that if he's the jealous type. The worst that could happen is she WILL tell your friend about it and he may get pissed at you but realize she's a possible cheater .... or get pissed at her and it may be resolved then and there. It could go a few different ways.
2006-08-18 10:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by ScratchMine&I'llScratchYours 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard one... Well you said getting your drinks I am going to assume alchol so maybe she just starting opening up after a few drinks. She knows you and the guy are friends and just wants to be your friend too. I would make one appointment to go walking with her, if you just walk and talk cool. If she starts hitting on you say "John is my friend and it is not right for you to be hitting on my that way so sorry I will not be able to walk with you again" then leave. She sounds weird though so maybe it's just best you leave her alone.
2006-08-18 10:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by MaryJaneD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not intrested in her,then,it should't be any problem.Just go walk with her,if she try to lead you in something else that is consider as cheating,do not follow her lead,you will hurt your friend,and ruin your own reputation.Worth it?For someone you know for like just a moment?
2006-08-21 16:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read too much into it yet. Try going on the walks and then if you feel like she's coming on to you, you have a choice what to do with the info then.
2006-08-18 10:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by ttti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you would never take a guy's girl and that its unloyal to hit on other people when you are about to make the biggest commitment of your life. Tell her if she doesn't stop you will have to tell your friend for his own well being.
2006-08-18 10:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I wonder if your friend (guy) got you together on purpose to see if she would be attracted to you. Maybe they are both looking for some group action.
It all depends on how you feel about it.
I would def be concerned about the motives.
2006-08-18 10:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by pammy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Confusious say: Walking lead to licking like fartin lead to shittin.
2006-08-18 10:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she waqnts to be friends. Some people are more touchy-feely like that. If she wants you and you dont want to hurt your friend two words pepper spray.
2006-08-18 10:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋