2006-08-18 10:37:46 · 20 answers · asked by ? 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
This brings me back to my previous question, "Is it true that the more you know a person, the less perfect they are?" I believe so. Don't you find it strange when you feel like you can trust strangers more than your friends? I feel like I can tell strangers many things that I wouldn't tell my friends. Why is that? :) But yeah, most definitely. The more you know a person, the more you dig into their inner personality and once you hit the core, it's up to you to construe who they really are. :)
2006-08-18 12:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Though i am accepting of all people as they are/appear to be. I also have the cop on to realize that all things change, and that includes people. Either they change or they reveal more of themselves hitherto unveiled. I endeavor to continue to love and accept the person until something perhaps makes me snap;perhaps breaks my principals, their want to control me or disrespectful nature toward me or others. In these instances i will try to help them see the error of their ways without crusading a reform on them. If such fails then i accept their choice to be who they are but sometimes fade from their life.
In this i try to remain so open minded and reserve judgement enough that i suspend views.
Thats a bit muddled but thats what i tink-i think.
2006-08-18 11:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess it depends if the change inside makes them an even better person that you thought or the contrary. Im guessing most people will think that the person "inside" will always be a negative realisation - Im not sure that's always the case.
2006-08-18 10:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sherlock 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes..it's logical. That is why we get to know people before we judge them. After we find out how they really are, that is when we should know how we view them.... not before.
2006-08-18 11:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its only natural to change views of people, because we all tend to pre-judge based on appearance. i believe everyon has this aspect to them, we judge based on color,looks,clothing etc.but when we get involved with knowing a person what we first thought could end up the exact opposite of reality. good question.
2006-08-18 10:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by badrussian1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...because isn't that how we judge people once we get "past" their looks?
I'm terribly disappointed in people who are shallow on the inside after an initial favorable impression.
2006-08-18 10:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by The ~Muffin~ Man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if how they are on the inside differs from my first impressions of them.
2006-08-18 10:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so. I had this friend in high school and he was quiet all the time. I suggested we hang out outside of school one day. we did and he did drugs and drank a lot n was fuc*in crazy obnoxious.
2006-08-18 10:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any opinion you form of someone without really knowing them is by definition superficial. I would hope you would update it as you get to know a person better.
2006-08-18 10:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kord, the Seeker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES. I usually find out the things they hide from most people, and it really grosses me out.
2006-08-18 10:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by justaskn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋