My mom let me have an open house at my shore house with all my college friends last week. There was alot of girls and guys that showed up that I dident know. My mom know alot of my friends and was just hanging around drinking with us,,, she always does its not a big deal. Later that night I was walking through my back hallway and in one of the bedrooms I saw my mom getting with some guy i dident know. I just saw them like hooking up but ... its my mom! Should i say anything to her about this or just leave it go.. is that a big deal?
2006-08-18 10:31:47 · 13 answers · asked by kevin C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would let it go. Your mom is a big girl. If it really bothers you dont have anymore parties at the house.
2006-08-18 10:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you and your mom need to talk (if you are bothered with it). Keep the communication lines open. Get her side of the story and don't jump to conclusions. Secondly, if the guy wasn't invited, then you should find out who he is and also find a way to control who comes into your house. Finally, you missed your chance to join in the fun. If your mom is THAT comfortable with doing a guy at your house, then she probably would have been willing to do you too. Either way talk to her, resolve this issue and move on... you may get laid too.
2006-08-20 23:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Supercooldude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have a 19 12 months previous son,and a 22 12 months previous daughter. He can date a woman with a piercing,its how they take care of one yet another,thats maximum necessary. My daughter doesnt have a navel piercing,yet her bf has his nipples pierced,he wears a nostril ring,and something on his chin(i forgot what that ones pronounced as). He doesnt positioned on the nostril or chin ones at formal applications. he's the main respectful youthful guy she has ever dated. He relatively cares for others. keep in mind,on no account decide a e book with the aid of its conceal...its an relatively genuine announcing.
2016-10-02 06:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by echavarria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tim is probably right, but if you have a good relationship with your mom it's never a good idea to bottle things up. It will always be in the back of your head. Might be a good idea to get it out in the open. I mean she has her needs, it might be easier to swallow and put it behind you.
2006-08-18 10:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. My mom has hooked up with lots of other guys. As long as she's happy, I'm happy for her. I know it feels weird, but you get over it.
2006-08-18 10:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Rai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom should not be hooking up with people you invite to your house. There's nothing wrong with her hooking up with men. However, she should not do it in your social circles. She'd be pretty unhappy if she invited her friends over and you decided to bang one of them.
2006-08-18 10:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your mother. She should have been a little more discreet, but still, she is old enough to make her own choices in life, up to and including whom she wishes to be with physically. I would chalk it up to her not realizing you were going to stumble across her getting a little and leave it at that.
Just my 2 cents worth
2006-08-18 10:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by capbarrow2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop inviting her to hang out with your friends.
If she ask why, tell her you don't like her doing
guys you known, and guys your age.
She going to get a name with them, and you have
to hear about it.
Sad.
2006-08-18 10:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let it go....she knows what she's doing. Needless to say that she's a woman and has her needs too!
2006-08-18 10:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her get her "freak" on. Dont be a buzz kill, junior.
2006-08-18 10:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋