I'm 8 months pregnant & my boyfriend just got off probation a few days ago, and he just went out and smoked some weed (he's back now!) should I be angry? I wasn't w/ him when he smoked it!!
2006-08-18 10:18:57 · 48 answers · asked by Cadence M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, but you should head straight to a lawyer to make sure that you and your baby are protected legally and that your no-good boyfriend pays child support. I suspect that's all the help you'll get from him -- and even that isn't a certainty.
2006-08-18 10:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes You Should Be Is That What You Want For Your Baby A Dad Who Is Smoking Weed ... Explain That To Him ... Rather He Was Around You Or Not ... Think What Is Best For Your Child And Try Talking To Your Boyfriend About This Does He Really Want To Be A Father That Smokes Weed .. I Hope He Changes His Mind And Stops Smoking Weed Exceptially Before You Give Birth ... Good Luck ..
2006-08-22 08:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by My Kissable Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be. He needs to grow up now and be a man. He is going to be a father in a month. Would you be mad if he smoked weed after you had the baby...say she/he was only a few days old. It shouldn't be any different. He needs to be staying at home caring for you and not out partying with the boys. Good luck with everything. You should sit down and have a long conversation with him about it. Tell him it bothers you. But don't say "you cant smoke weed" anymore. Men hate it when women tell them what to do and give them rules and boundaries. Let him come to that conclusion himself. Just coerce him.
2006-08-18 10:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I don't blame you for being angry. He has a child on the way- he doesn't need to be out smoking weed, especially if he just got off probation. I hope he shapes up. That's a huge responsibility and there's no room in it for weed.
2006-08-18 11:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your really young.
Of course you should be mad.
I'm sorry to say this to you but you picked a loser for a boyfriend.
If he is smoking weed now he will continue to smoke it after the baby is born and all through your child's life. You kid is going to catch on to what daddy is doing and end up picking up the habit in his teen years. So, I hope your ready for your child to become a stoned loser like your boyfriend. Pretty sad situation your in.
If you want to do what is best for you and your baby, you need to leave him or else make him quit completely which I doubt he will. He may say he will and then just keep doing it behind your back. Get out while you can and raise your child in a good environment.
Please!!!
2006-08-18 10:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tired-Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be angry. Getting upset is just a reminder that something is wrong, and your bf was wrong for that action. You are eight months pregnant and weed should not factor into the child's environment at all. Try and talk with your bf about this so the both of you can work this out together.
2006-08-18 10:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that I would be mad that he smoked weed I would be mad if he had all his buddies hanging around smoking and jeopardizing you and your babies lively hood. If he smokes at home by himself for the most part and he did it before you guys got together then you shouldn't be mad but if he is bringing his buddies over and everyone is getting high then that isn't an environment you want to bring your child up in.
2006-08-18 10:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Knock Knock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be angry, but perhaps with him and yourself. Did you not know he smoked prior to concieving the child with him? Not that it makes it right. He could end up in jail and you'd be raising that baby all alone. Does he want to be a part of that baby's life--daily, and not through a fiberglass window? Maybe you should ask him, and then take a moment to think about the man you've chosen to be connected to for the rest of that child's life.
2006-08-18 10:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by mysonsablessing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a real winner there! And you're having his baby, too! Dump the jerk! Clean up you life! Have the baby, and look for a man who's not a criminal, and who will be there for you and your child. When you find the right man, get married to him so your baby will have a real man to be his/her father. Until you find this man, and marry him, I would suggest you keep your pants on, if you know what I mean. If you would have done that in the first place, you wouldn't be in this mess.
If this isn't an ad for saying no to premarital sex, I don't know what is.
2006-08-18 10:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by bob 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH YOU SHOULD! He made you pregnant...now he needs to GROW UP! and not stay in the teenage point in his life! Those days are over. You and the baby should be his top priority....NOT DRUGS! Id give him the boot unless he drops the habit...Besides think about where his money is going towards...and not the baby! Thats son inconsiderate and irresponsible. Actually if he is that irresponsible he isnt ready to be a dad. Id go for child support if I were you!
2006-08-18 10:28:53 · answer #10 · answered by redhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be mad about that? You should be mad that you are pregnant by a guy with a criminal record. You should be furious that your future is limited like never before. You can solve this by dumping the pothead and getting on with life on your own. It is much better to carry on alone than with a stoner tied aroud your neck.
2006-08-18 10:28:29 · answer #11 · answered by Lee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋