losing confidence :(?

Question

oki ive had a pretty bad year so far, couldnt finish my studies and they were pretty much everything for me. Havent found a great job and ive had some health problems.
well ive tried to stay positive, but recently i catch myself crossing the depressing line.
Of course comming across hardships is what life is, but i thought i will have the support of the ppl i love. Weird enough they are the ones who are happiest about this and take every opportunity to make me feel worthless.
I need to get out of this situation, stop being passive and do smth, but ive started losing confidence..
Any advice?

Answer 1

what do you like to do the most ? what is your favorite food ? what do you think when you are alone ? i dont know whta you are studying but if it is imoprtant for you, i think you like studying it. i think your not finishing the studies dont mean that you are bad at your subject. did you know that some painters are thrown out the school ? :) well, we run after getting a piece of paper, but i sometimes think that in old times people dont have that sort of routines. you know, those ancient times.. they were meeting at an area and just talking, writing, taking notes, etc. they were doing these just for fun. they used to feel satisfied when they "think". today, there is a great socialpressure on us -as if everything should be in order. i dont like this. i am sure you have very different abilities, try to stay alive a part of your "soul" just for yourself, not for anyone else. maybe you need to pass that period. some years pass more beautiful than others, and some years pass more difficult than others. after you passed this period, you will begin to look different life.
health problems might be serious soon, so take care of yourself, and continue to see doctor. you will feel better soon -in all perspectives.
job problem is at everywhere. you will find the suitable job one day. it is like waiting for the right person :)
i am too tired today, my eyes are closing..you will be good soon, i promise.

Answer 2

Hi it's very interesting to hear your situation. I was in a similar situation myself with not having a good job etc.

I think the best thing for you could be hypnosis. I know it might sound a bit strange but do give it a try anyway. It's worked for others and it can work for you too.

There is a fantastic free hypnosis download for Confidence at the following website that I highly recommend.

All the best,

James.

Answer 3

Sure, buy some hypnosis tapes and regain the confidence you once had, also you can make your own hypnosis tapes to heal your body. The mind is the strongest body part, so exercise it.

If you don't go to church, then try it, maybe someone their has been waiting for you and would love to help with all your problems.

Never tell your friends your problems, they will just make them worse, tell your emimies, they love to hear how bad you have it. They will be over joyed, by the news.

Answer 4

be what your name proclaims you are: a fighter.dont let someone else make you feel miserable or like you are not worthy.fight all these depressing feelings that you may be feeling and realize that this is not gonna be forever.smile, laugh at your own situation, however hard it may be, but please dont give in to depression.depression is a terrible place to be.

Think about the things in the past that made you happy or smile.if need be, go out and make more connections with different people.invite other friends and family into your life that will not make you feel worthless.

Answer 5

I can understand your pain as in my life I had my ups and downs but apart from all this I realize that at the end of the its me whom I have to keep happy..just do everything u like to do without hearing someone and without any second thought as happiness is a gate to confidence. Choose the way which makes u happy 😊

Answer 6

well, try hanging around with your friends more often. join a group that meets after school to keep you busy. if if gets to bad try talking to your parents. they will listen and they love you. get a boyfriend, so you have something to talk about and someone to hang out with. do not just sit alone being depressed. that is when people start to consider suicide. because they think no one cares about them and it would not make a difference if you were gone. do not get any bad thoughts in your head at all. if you do tell someone immediatly.
Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 7

Accomplish something each day. Even if its small. Pay a bill, look for a job, say NO to someone. Not all of us have "great" jobs until later on. If you're friends are happy about your mis-fortunes then you need new friends. Remember Misery loves company.

Answer 8

Get away from the negative people in your life. All they are going to do is continue to bring you down. Go to the doctor and ask for some anti depressants. There is no shame in that. Try to make new friends and surround yourself with positive people.

Answer 9

do get out of a bad situation(family,spouse,better half) negative is negative. blood does not make a family in today's world. i had similar relationship w/ my "LOVED" ones, it was hard but i cut them off, we keep in touch but I'm ok with my family not really being part of my life, I've adopted a new family any way. I'm not passive so i don't know what to tell you about that, don't let them get to you, distance your self mentally from them, it takes time but you'll be happier. remember, NOTHING VERY GOOD OR VERY BAD LASTS FOREVER

Answer 10

Relocate! A change of scenery helped me out a lot but leaving all the things that got me down somewhere else!