but... my mom and i were going somewere and now said she would go by her self, i dont want to hurt her feeling but i want to go to my friend house
2006-08-18 09:57:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why don't you go to your friend's house after you & your mom do whatever you were planning? I doubt you and your mom will be out all night!
2006-08-18 10:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by audio♥panic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go out with your mom!!!!!!
You made plans with her first!!!!
And you should know that you will hurt her feelings if you go to your friends house for the night.
Your mom has probabely worked hard on planning this night. And is excited to spend time with you.
Chances are you don't spend to much with her if your in middle school or high school. Once you cross into these levels it all becomes about boys and friends. And the parents get pushed aside.
She only said she would go by herself to make you happy. Chances are if you don't go with her she won't even go. She doesn't want you to know that you are breaking her heart.
So she is saying go I'll be okay. I love you. I'll put your feelings before mine because I'm not selfish.
Think of mom this time and not your own shelfish needs.
Why can't you stay with your friend tommorow night.
Dedicate this night to mom and show her how much you love her.
Friends come and go your mom is forever. Go and make some happy memories with mom.
Plus if your friend is a true friend then she will understand and she would tell you to spend time with your mom.
Think of mom and her needs this time!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 10:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the tone of your moms voice, she might just want you to have fun. If you and your mom go places often then one time shouldn't be that big of a deal. Your mom still wants you to go but going with your mom everywhere is bad, because you won't be able to say things to your mom like OK, i will go to my friends then. I'm sure your mom will be OK with what ever you chose. good luck
2006-08-18 10:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by suzhayabusa1300 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can always go to your friends house but u can barely spend quality time with your mom. Just go with her because family comes first and your mom is always there for u and the least u can do is be there for her at least once.
2006-08-18 10:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by echavarria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww that's very sweet and caring of you, if your mom said go to your friends house then go...when ever that situation came up w/ my daughter, i really much prefer she be with her friends, we would do something at another time together.
2006-08-18 10:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is the boss and you must obey her even if it's hard.
2006-08-18 10:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Maria C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH WHO ASKED FIRST....................
2006-08-18 10:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by iris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋