i love my man, but sometimes he drives me crazy, always want and want...we have five kids that i take care of morining and until i go to bed, i do the cleaning,dinner,clothes,dishes and anything he may ask for, but thats not my complaint, my complaint is he flys of the handle, or if i try to joke around its not okay, i love him with all my heart but sometimes i wish he would just give a little like he did in the first part of us being together..i know it has been hard with his x-wife, but he thinks i'm too motional, i try talking to him but sometimes, it don't sink in.. but he is a really good man, better then anyone i have ever been with.... what should i do...
2006-08-18 09:39:25 · 5 answers · asked by leanndesigns 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
On the surface it sounds like you two aren't getting enough alone time with each other. You two need to make time to just relax and enjoy being together. Instead you come together for a short amount of time with so much going on that every little issue is magnified. You need to figure out a way to schedule time to just be alone together as adults and reconnect. Some thing as simple as a walk around the block while holding hands can do wonders to relax a couple and help them reconnect.
2006-08-18 09:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe he has an identity crisis and he is very insecure about himself. Two good reasons to take your frustrations out on somebody and that somebody should be close to him. Of course it is the wife who has to take the brunt of it.
Keep loving him and try to find out what is bothering him. It could be very minor and you'll "straighten" him out in a hurry. Otherwise you'll need professional help.
2006-08-18 09:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Henk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use those four words that send a chill up the back of the person hearing them, "WE HAVE TO TALK". Then do just that; get an older mature person to act as a mediator if necessary; but get the message across that he has to grow up a little.
2006-08-18 09:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wanna trade?
2006-08-18 09:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Frenchy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep telling him how you feel until he changes oor stop doing what you do for him tell him your his gf not his maid so treat you like it
2006-08-18 09:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋