my boyfriend according to him, he is never wrong i'm awlays the bad one. He will never be proven wrong instead he will not talk to me til I get sad and forget the reason why I'm up set. and I always do this. However, time it's serious.
2006-08-18 09:37:30 · 21 answers · asked by unicorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just ask him....
2006-08-26 02:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by hunterman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure what IOF is but, when I saw ...std, I knew this was a serious matter. Please confront him about these issues, std's can really be harmful. And if you know that you were 100% honest and faithful; then don't second guess yourself he's the source of the problem. Don't beat yourself up, that's probably why he acts the way he does; make you feel low?, blames u for everything?, makes you feel guilty?, and whatever else because he's the guilty one trying to cover his tracks. If you have contracted an std,get help ASAP and leave the dog.
2006-08-23 13:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by pink81088 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so just tell him Hey I have an STD and I got it from you. You should really get yourself checked and please tell that girl you were with to get checked also. You might want to tell any other girls that you have slept with also just in case you had the STD before you slept with the last one. If you want to continue being with him you can ask him if he has cheated on you. If you have been tested before getting with him and during and he says no he is lying and you should drop him. If not then work it out. But be smart you had just as much a part in it as he did. It takes two people to have consensual sex. And two people to say it's ok if you don't put on a condom.
2006-08-26 13:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by strawberries_r_cream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that your bf is being inconsiderate and not caring for your feelings at all. I've come across this with several guys that I've dated. They never want to be wrong because its a PRIDE thing. But in every relationship I was always proving them that they were wrong. But I started to notice, I was just being as bad as them and selfish. So I quit proving and start letting them be right once in a while. But when it came to him blaming me for certain things like Cheating....when I didn't, but he was...and I was in the wrong for knowing that he was in the wrong....It's called a secret that wasn't suppose to be spilled, and it did somewhere. So when your right, and he's wrong he can't admit his mistakes, and women have an easier way of taking and accepting the blame and faults because of the maturity levels....SOMETIMES...
2006-08-26 16:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like that then he is way to self centered and if he cant be prove him wrong then tell him that you will leave him and if he says no you wont prove him wrong then in about a week or 2 come back and say " You were wrong i did leave you so who is the bad guy know.
2006-08-26 02:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this jerk. If he blows off your feelings he's not the one for you. It will end in heartbreak...yours! As far as him giving you an STD...he'll never admit to that. I know his type. He's playing with you...move on! It's time to take care of yourself...life is too short to play games with your feelings.
2006-08-26 07:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
****** guys, he's a ***** sounds, like my man sometimes but he obviously sounds like he takes no responsibility for his own actions and seems very inconsiderate of your feelings. He is selfish and you know it, and its breaking your heart. My advice to you is tell him hes an asshole and slap him in the face and tell him you need a real man and if he aint gonna shape up then hes done with...god bless you
2006-08-25 01:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_one 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. Tell him he gave you an STD and you need to ask him some questions about it.
2006-08-25 09:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell hey you gave me a std and then drag his a s s with you to the clinic to get a test done!
2006-08-26 07:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Renee A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
on a serous note if you have not done anything since you have been with him then u probably got it from him. also you could of had it before you got with him. so if you have gotten tested prior of being together and you were clean then you need to say hey i have an std and i know i got it from you. and take it from there. either he cheated on you or had it before you got with him. either way he needs to be treated and so do you.
2006-08-18 16:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by star19825812 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a WOMAN AND COME OUT AND ASK HIM... FORGET HIS PRIDE OF HIM BEING WRONG OR RIGHT.... We are talkin about your health.. Which..... correct me if I am wrong, is more important than some MAN.... IF he has given you something, take him by the neck and beat him until he is writing the list out in blood... and if he refuses, then beat him some more
2006-08-26 15:55:08 · answer #11 · answered by Shonda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋