my ex just called me and was like freaking out and crying because he just got in a really really big fight with his mom. i couldnt really say much, cause i didnt know what to say. he was saying how he hated his life and stuff. and i felt soo bad. hes about to call me again. and i dont know what to say.
2006-08-18 09:29:50 · 21 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him you gotta go cuz he broke up with you and so you just don't care
2006-08-18 09:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by corwinnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is an ex then there is usually a reason, lets not forget he might be using you as a crutch which he will then disguard when he is done. If you both ended it well then be a friend but try and find out why he is calling you and not someone else.
2006-08-18 16:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask if he wants to come over and talk and maybe watch a movies and grab a bite to eat to take his mind off of everything and just think about coming up with some ideas on how how he can make his relationship with his mother better or even consider moving with his dad.
2006-08-18 16:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously calling you because he feels you can comfort him. Can you? Do you want to help him. You still mean something to him (either a little, or a lot), but he needs your help if you are willing to give it. It all depends on how you feel towards him. If you still have feelings for him, then help him and this might end up helping you get back together. or at least stay friends
2006-08-18 16:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by chica123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that I am so sorry about your fight and tell him that you don't hate your life and stuff like that. You always get into fights and stuff its very normal! Its okay.
2006-08-18 16:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if maybe he could enroll in counselling since he said he hates his life and stuff. Maybe become better friends with him and help him?
2006-08-18 16:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to him & let him know that your there for him to talk to. Sometimes listening to someones problems help them more than anything else.
2006-08-18 16:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex, you must still be friends if he calls you to discuss personal problems still. If so, be patient & kind. If not, tell him you can't help him, after all he is your ex.
2006-08-18 16:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by shewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an EX - tell him to call someone who cares.
2006-08-18 16:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you dont need to say anything and....just listen. Sometimes just knowing someone is there for you is all they need.
2006-08-18 16:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by nmaponte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that his life is not that bad and at least he has a mother who is there to care for him...I dont have one so i know how hard it is...Just tell him to keep postive and things will simply fall into place.
2006-08-18 16:34:56 · answer #11 · answered by Lucid_dreams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋