Gaydar/Bi-dar -- Do you ever sense that openly gay or bi people at work know you are not straight?

Answer 1

There's a lot of subconscious body language and stuff that some observant people can pick up on. And some of it, they might not realize exactly what it is they picked up, but they saw SOMETHING. Eye contact is a big one; either with the person or if they see you covertly checking out someone else. We've all done the "how can I look at that guy without anyone seeing" thing, so we're a little bit better at seeing other people doing the same thing. So, yeah: the openly gay / bi people may very well know about you.

Answer 2

Sexual charm is affected more effective by technique of scent then something else. it really is why they make body spray. when you're in touch in men you also like the way they scent. no matter if it truly is ladies human beings you merely like the heady scent of a lady. So even as blind human beings wont be staring at Hustler and pud knocking they could be brooding about technique of a great heady scent and then it is the feel. Like in Pulp fiction Fabian says " what's eye-catching to the interest isn't continually eye-catching to the contact".

Answer 3

Absolutely! One of my best friends is openly gay and she can pick out another gay or bisexual person from across the room. Don't laugh, we have set and "people watched" and tried to guess. She gets 100% EVERY time! It's actually kind of scary.

Answer 4

I couldn't really tell. Mainly because in my mind I know I am, I'm always wondering if other people can tell. Even though he was gay, I don't think he knew since I am very straight acting.

Answer 5

::: rolling in the floor laughing :::

I work in a VERY conservative office in which most if not all here are church goers. LOL!!! To find out that there is someone here GAY other than me would send me into hysterical laughter! LOL!!!

Answer 6

i have one bi person at work and she knows, and one gay person who, i don't know if he knows. i don't have the "lesbian look" and i doubt i send out any vibes - as no lesbian hits on me and i'm fairly attractive in comparison to lesbians in my area. or i could be wrong and i'm just ugly. either way, when i came out to some friends at work it didn't bother them, they weren't expecting it but they said it makes sense for me to also like girls.

Answer 7

I believe gaydar is a real instinct.

Answer 8

yes, the friend i came out to already knew so I'm sure it's obvious to them but maybe not to the straights

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

yes