why is communicatin between men and women so difficult to do?

Answer 1

Because we are just so different. You just have to try to make sure that you are communicating in ways that the other one understands and hopefully they can adapt and communicate in ways that are easier for you to understand. It's all about finding a middle ground.

Answer 2

Because women (and I'm guilty of this, too) assume that men can read their minds. For example, if there was something that the guy did that pissed the girl off, the girl would expect the guy to automatically and magically know exactly how she's feeling and why she's pissed off. Men on the other hand (for the most part) like things in black and white, right and wrong, this way or that way. They don't get their emotions so easily mixed up when thinking (unless they're trying to be stupid and macho). Sometimes they can be so oblivious as to what's going on, they might not even know the girl was mad at all in the first place; a lot of times, guys need things spelled out to them in THEIR terms. Nobody is ever willing to compromise or meet halfway; they want the other person to do all the work because it was their fault - or something like that. Maybe even sometimes either one doesn't even care! Of course, I'm speaking in general - I know there are lots of exceptions out there but that's my take.

Answer 3

They say men are from mars and women from Venus.
We are brought up differently by our parents. We have biologic all differences etc, emotional and so on.
But it is good, would not be nice if it would be easy. Just think that communication with many people is hard. You just need to learn how lot listen care full, talking will be easier.

Answer 4

Its often a sexually loaded situation. People have a lot of psychological baggage on the line--the man doesn't want to make a fool out of himself, he is wondering if the woman likes him, and the woman is wondering if the man is a weirdo or maybe a real good catch. A lot is on the line.

Answer 5

Well, considering that when and if a man opens up his true feelings, he is immediately assumed to be Gay, do you blame them. You ladies cast the role of men in a very narrow slot...the John Wayne type, and when they act to sterotype, you start singing the blues. Make up your minds, you cannot have it both ways. Good luck

Answer 6

cos men would normally consider one issue ONLY at one time, whereas women relate one issue to another and see the whole situation as a whole. so somewhere along the line they loose the man in a discussion who still cant see how, whatever they are arguing about, is related to the topic they actually started discussing in the beginning.

Answer 7

I think that a lot of it has to do with the way we think. Women analize and analize and plan and men just do. For most cases anyhow.

I also expect my husband to realize when I am upset and hurt and to come make it better right away, he expects it to just go away if he ignores it.

We just have different ways of thinking and doing and sometimes they clash.

Answer 8

Our brains process info differently. Men hear problem and think let me fix it. Women just want to talk it out and sometimes we just want a sounding board. Men just dont think the same. I found if I just say hey I just want you to listen then it works better. And if I have a prob and need my husbands help to fix it then I say hey help me fix this.

Answer 9

cause men don't like to talk all they do is look at your body and eat.
..... I think they have less brain cell.
On a serious note some men thinks if they open up they will sound like a sissy.

Answer 10

Because we close each others minds off to the opset sex's feelings. When men want us to talk we close our words off because we are afraid of hurting them and when men close off it's because well, let's face it they don't have much to say....

good luck.