can a guy know if i am a virgin? thought he is a diabetes doctor can he judge my virginity?

Question

i had relationship with my ex boy frnd. and now madly in love with another guy who loves me too, but i havent told him i have lost my virginity is there can way he can find out when the first time we have sex. and the most important is that my current boy frnd is a diabetes doctor can he ever judge if i am not a virgin will this cause a problem cause i can not tell it to him he does not like people getting into relationships easily. please kindly give me your suggestions considering this problem seriously

Answer 1

I think the general consesus is that if you cannot speak to your partner about your sexual history - either because you're too embarassed or ashamed, or whatever - then you shouldn't have sex with each other. Given your description of your problem, it doesn't sound like you are ready now (or were in the past) to handle a sexual relationship in a mature way. Your partner deserves to know something about your sexual history, since it can put him at risk for infection.

Also, what is a "diabetes doctor?" Do you mean he's an internist or endocrinologist? I suppose it doesn't matter, since the only way someone might be able to tell if you've been sexually active is with a pelvic exam, and even then the doctor might not be able to tell.

No matter what the boys on this site are saying - they cannot tell if someone is a virgin or not. . .your vaginal muscles are just that - muscles - and they don't get "stretched" just by having sex a few times. Also, the concept of "popping a cherry" is long gone - most women nowadays lead active lives, and have lost the hymen ("cherry") long before they even consider becoming sexually active. It is completely normal for a first time sexual encounter to NOT involve bleeding or "popping" of anything for the woman.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Any man who has had sex with a virgin will know.
Or should know.
A diabetes doctor has not studied OB/GYN specifically, they have studied problems with women who are diabetic and pregnant, and so forth.
I doubt if he could tell by giving you an exam.
Why does it matter?

If he has sex with you any time during this relationship he is as 'loose' as you have been so don't worry about it.

I am not judging, but you seem to think you were 'loose' based on what he says.
We all live differently, and if he is going to LOOK at your vagina to see if you are a virgin, I really would think about if he is the RIGHT one for you?

This is a sign of a problem, he might be very controlling in a relationship and start looking at your panties and vagina after you and him are a part for any length of time to see if you cheated.

What you start a relationship with is NEW LOVE for him not all the OLD stuff that did not work.

If you tell him he might say OK fine.
NO problem!
But one day he will toss it back at you!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

If your still a virgin or whatever happened why don't you just be honest with him. He might find out from you or something else. When he finds out he will be mad or pissed at you. I suggest sitting him down and explaining your still a virgin or whatever happend. it doesn't matter if hes a doctor or whatever. You need to be honest... Once you lie you have to lie 20 time to get cover up the first one. Plus he might already know!

Answer 6

Probably not, but it is one heck of a way to begin a sexual relationship with a guy because it is based on a lie. I think you need to rethink your thoughts regarding this and come clean with him. Honesty is the best policy.

Answer 7

if your uncomfortable being honest in your current relationship then it wont last so the question is then invalid. although it's sometimes obviouse to guys if your not because your cherry dont break, other less experienced guys are clueless and believe anything.

Answer 8

all men can tell if a women is virgin or not by just looking the way she walks leave alone penetrating and knowing it.

Answer 9

He will know because he wont pop nothing and it wont be tight down there. Just slides right in....

Answer 10

Guys can tell this sort of thing.. Depending on the size of the first guy...