Hi, I am an attractive guy of African descent, and I sometimes get noticed by nice looking white women while walking…while in the train... Even when they walk or are seated alongside their white husbands, b/f, ...they seem to stare and smile at me even more... Then their guy friend abruptly becomes offensive and tries to physically “win” her attention back. I’ve literally been intentionally “block” by a complete stranger a few times just because a white girl was staring at me in the train. I respect all relationships, but we all love to flirt once in a while. I am not boasting myself ladies because I think this happens to many nice looking brothas. Seriously, why do white men go through such physical break-downs just to hide their ladies from taking a peak at us. . Is it really worth it?? I’m not looking for any burning comments of rage and fiery here, just anything civilized and intelligent. Thnx!
2006-08-18 08:45:11 · 22 answers · asked by drknight02 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
If you are talking about white men in Iran; it may be national policy. In the USA, there is no such thing within my circle. Now if you go to certain parts of Alabama and Mississippi, they will probably string you up.
That is what you wanted to read; your question has no validity. We don't have head hunters in America; that would be Africa. Get a life and quit white bashing; we probably are paying your way in America,
2006-08-21 19:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Personally, I really couldn't give a damn if my girl sneaks a peek.
She's still coming home with me.
Besides, my friend...there's no such thing as race...and why even make it an issue or something worth wondering about?
I've been on the other end of the spectrum where I've had black men do a physical attention redirection from their girls looking at me too...
I'm a good looking Sicilian guy that owns a very profitable business.....so the suits and nice car helps too....not to mention that I'm always smiling, well built, and gentlemanly.
Now, don't misunderstand me... I'm not saying that as a boasting point....the point is that there are insecure people of all "races", period.
America rarely raises men anymore...and when a weenie sees a real man and catches his woman looking...he's got every reason to be jealous. A woman can always spot the difference.
2006-08-18 10:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Manji 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. It's vicious not viscous. 2. Some of it may be in your head - i.e. misperceptions. 3. Maybe it's not an issue w/ black guys but, instead, the fact that you're looking to flirt (as you admitted) and overt flirting when the significant other (SO) is there is not going to be taken by most people to be too cool. Save the flirting for the times when no SOs are there. 4. If all of the above are not true (and your self-awareness is such that you're not deluding yourself) then it could be that the guys you happen to bump into in all these situations have this perception of white female attraction to the perceived raw, taboo, and 'different' element of black male sexuality.
2006-08-18 08:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine the scenario would be similar, no matter the race of the other person. Some people are simply jealous/insecure and don't care for their partner looking at anyone else who might be a "threat" to the relationship.
Alas, some people still also have negative feelings toward races not their own, so that might compound the issue when their partner is (or appears to be) admiring someone of another race.
2006-08-18 08:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yer Trippin! What makes you think race has anything to do with it there are jealous idiots everywhere and of every race. I've had black guys drag their woman away from me in basically the same situation. Besides like I said at the start, you sound like your ego's bigger than your brain, maybe they're staring and smiling because your funny looking.
2006-08-18 08:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably for the same reason black men do when their women check out white men. Or maybe they feel they could never measure up to a black men with all the stereotypes about them having large you know whats.
2006-08-18 08:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im a white woman married to a black man we get dirty looks all the time white men always have a problem they have real issues in there life i love black men i grew up not looking at color all i can say is dont pay them any attention they r scared u will get there women
2006-08-18 08:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by greyeyebeauty81 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
2 points
2006-08-18 08:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Hando C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny.
Black women totally FREAK OUT when their man looks at a white chick.
Why is that?
2006-08-18 08:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Golly gee whiz, I have the exact same problem with black women looking at me, so I know how you feel.
2006-08-18 08:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋