My best friend is my life.I love her to death,and the other night I saw her man kissing another girl.I dont know if i should tell her or nit.I know your not suppose to get in others relationships but I dont want her to get hurt more then she already has.She loves him so much even though he lies and cheats on her.She know he lies but not cheats.What do i do tell her or let her find out on her own?
2006-08-18 08:26:37 · 35 answers · asked by NJBiTcH4LiFe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what the HELL r u waiting for
u should tell her
cuz a good frnd always gonna do wats good 4 his frnd
understand
2006-08-18 08:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ship that you wanted has sailed away
whether you should telegram her to tell her the weather for the day
is it right or wrong, you are perplex
why is she still making life so complex
if she has made the choice of man in her life
let her go and let her faces her own life
you are not god to judge and tell
why should you, did she when she loves you then as well?
move on and get a life
do not be another tell taler in your life
find and best friend and love as you should
never turn back on the choice that she took
2006-08-18 13:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her if I were u. She believes in you and if ever she happens to know that u knew her bf was cheating and u did not tell her then that is what will make her suffer more. Go on tell her, it's your friend. Living her in darkness is something u should never do. She might even hate u for this one day if u don't tell her.
2006-08-18 08:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by olde finnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and let her know that you are just looking out for her and you don't want to see her get hurt. If she doesn't believe you don't say any more about. But if you get the chance and you have a camera phone snap that mo fo and show it to her. Really you need to ask your self would you want her to tell you if your man was cheating on you?!?!
2006-08-18 08:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not tell her..
i think ..let her find out on her own ..
because she is the best person who knows the status of their relationship..
..may be she knows that he cheats her..but if u tell that incident to her then situation will become bad for her..
only time can solved these kind of issues..but friend's role is also important in these situation....
if the things will becomes poor in the near future ....that time u need to show ur friendship..u have to stand with ur best friend..
2006-08-18 08:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by onlybindas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she already knows he cheats, don't tell her. Also don't trash him in front of her, she cares for him and you not liking him won't change that. She might feel she has to defend him and that just makes it harder for her make up her own mind that he is not the guy for her. She has a lesson to learn here but it is her lesson. If she is able to disentangle herself from him, don't say 'I told You So'. There are things about him that she likes, he's not all bad (just a supreme jerk for leading her on), and she will grieve for the relationship that she was hoping for in him. Be there for HER.
2006-08-18 08:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Rider of Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her your friendship is over, PERIOD.
If you need to share, let her find out for herself (put the girl's name and phone # on a note by her purse, leave her a note {innocently} saying "Jane Doe" called and needs "John Doe" to call her back (Jane Doe being the Ho and John Doe being the boyfriend, OR innocently say "I missed you Friday night at Porky's...all I saw was your boyfriend out there. I didn't have time to stop by the table, but I just remembered he and some friend of yours were at a table by the band.)
If you tell, You will regret it, if she finds out ON HER OWN, You and she BOTH win!!! (by the way, I'm pretty darn trustworthy, so feel free to put in a good word for me, kay?)
2006-08-18 08:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you don't tell your bestfriend that their man is cheating on them they get mad at you,...........this is a very hard decision if you decide to tell her that her man is cheating on her she might not think it's true or your jealous of her, but if you let her find out on her own, then she might think that your not a good friend for not telling her,............
it really depends.
2006-08-18 08:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by princessfolleta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him on cheaters! lol you should kinda give her the hint.. but then again i would want my best friend to be real with me.. ride or die right? dont keep it from her if hes a dog. even if she does love him let her know but just let her know whats up no drama though. i'm in a somewhat similar situation.
2006-08-18 08:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Andi21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knows he lies she knows he cheats. Its called a woman's intuition. I think that you should talk to her and ask her if she's had any inkling that he's cheating or talk to him and tell you seen him and he needs to tell her before you do...weigh your options its a catch 22, you tell her it will hurt her, or dont and it will hurt her. think about her best interest. Good Luck & God Bless.
2006-08-18 08:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by LILMAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her...you'd want her to do the same if she saw your man kissing another...your best friends, look out for each other.
2006-08-18 08:34:41 · answer #11 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋