2006-08-18 08:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by mamamia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask anyone who's been married for 60 years and they'll tell you this is routine. It happens. Infatuation is great and the first stages of love and honeymoon is awesome but love can be beat down by daily life and normal relationship wear & tear.
What you have to do is recognize and own up to the feelings and tell your man "I feel like this..." and "I'd feel better if you/we...".
Make some time for each other and work on being intimate like before. Get aggressive with him in the bedroom and watch him treat you with much more enthusiasm! The trick is to find out how to respark the romance. Actions preceed emotions so as long as you behave like you're in love, eventually your heart remembers.
That's why it's marriage! You committed! For better or for worse, as long as you both shall LIVE! Not as long as you both shall LOVE! It's up to you to make your own happiness in a marriage and you have all the power to do it!
2006-08-18 08:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by PuzzledMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but the real question should be at times do you doubt the love the spouse has for you. Be honest......
2006-08-18 08:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by dasani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he doesn't love me like he used to love me. We have been together three years next week, and I sometimes feel like I'm just too young for miserous love.
2006-08-18 08:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by wondergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Even though he is gone right now (military deployment) I have never for a minute doubted my love for him. i know that he ist eh one for me, and noone else could fit me as perfectly as he could.
2006-08-18 08:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, when he starts acting strange. But most of the time
I don't!
2006-08-18 08:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by msdudash@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER....I look into her eyes and I can see it. Feel it when we hold each other, and hear it in her voice when she says I LOVE you.
2006-08-18 14:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by R W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes.
2006-08-18 08:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... never.
2006-08-18 08:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes..
2006-08-18 10:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by chat girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋