2006-08-18 08:16:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweety ... you jump ship as there has been problems for years.... if you want to know...on2try@yahoo.com
2006-08-18 08:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by on2try 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is oof on a vacation with another woman than I think you have only one answer.
It's time to stop living in denial and move into the real world. Get a good divorce lawyer. If you are in America then you are entitled to 1/2 of all the marital assets...plus 50% of his pension. Contact a lawyer and quit whining to a bunch of strangers on the internet.
I know that I'm hard on you but somebody's got to tell the emperior that he has no clothes!
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Good luck
2006-08-18 15:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question got cut off. Post more details if you can.
You have 30 years invested in the relationship. It's worth your while to try to figure out what's going on. Confront him. Demand an explanation. Schedule an appointment with a marriage/relationship counselor at a time when you know he will be available. Tell him to be there.
If he shows up, you can work on fixing the marriage. Either it will work and you'll be happy again someday. Or, it won't and you can move on with a clear conscience.
If he doesn't show up or want to go, then get an attorney and get started on the divorce.
You most likely have adult children. Don't let him blame you for what has happened. He needs to take ownership.
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2006-08-18 15:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait..wait..wait..
He went. Vacationing.. Vacationing!! With another woman.. And didn't invite you! At least he could have took you along! I mean, damn! Don't you need some vacation time from his sorry ***?
I'll kick him out just for that! Vacation? He has lost his mind...
2006-08-18 17:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you! You can seek divorce or choose to forgive. Yet I would seriously think about all consequences of each of the scenarios!! As for myself, I will seek divorce as long as I have never cheated my partner, other than that I will be a hypocrite.
2006-08-18 15:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a good break!...Imagine eating some seafood after eating steak for 30 years!
2006-08-18 15:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adios! Amigo!
2006-08-18 15:25:06 · answer #7 · answered by ChicaLoca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a Private Eye. Than hang his da@n self. Learn from my experiences. Nip this bast@$d in the bud!!!!!
2006-08-18 15:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by cindy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U either ask him to explain himself n see if he has a good excuse or just ask him to pack n' go!!
2006-08-18 15:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by maria32greece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean besides divorcing him?
2006-08-18 15:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋