Before I was 11 I checked out girls and boys but once I hit puberty I just checked out guys. When I started masturbating I would only masturbate infront of pictures of guys and fantasize about them at the same time. Many times through out my life I fantisized about my friends who are guys in a sexual way. I sometimes fantasized about girls but those thoughts seem to come less natural. I did one time try to masturbate infront of a picture of a girl but after that I went back to guys. I also have this problem when I watch porn. I can only enjoy porn if it has a guy in it, if it has just girls in it, it does not interest me. Throughout my life I did want to start a relation ship with a girl and at one I did get interested in a girl and we did date. But a couple weeks we were together I became less interested in her and I would sometimes get grossed out by her if I look at her in a sexual way. Could I be gay?
2006-08-18 08:02:13 · 15 answers · asked by brucy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm currently confused about my self and I keep on getting naked thoughts of girls and guys in my head, but the naked guys seem to interest me more.
2006-08-18 08:03:41 · update #1
My older sister is bi could that make it even more possible for me to be gay?
2006-08-18 08:36:34 · update #2
i agree with altonbi, you are what you are. i use to fantisize about women all the time, but after years of boyfriends and girlfriends i found one person in particular that made me the happiest-my now husband. boy or girl i went through them all and i just waited to see who made my knees weak. and sure enough it was a guy but i always expected a girl. sometimes you just have to keep looking until you find someone, guy or girl. and hey if it makes you feel better i still to this day can only watch lesbian porn get off, if i watch porn.
2006-08-18 08:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by meghan m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your thoughts, I would say you are gay, possible bi. Which I am sure you will get a bunch of off colored remarks, but ignore them. You are what you are and accept it.
2006-08-18 08:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Midwest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you are going towards gay. i think that you are only insecure because you dont know what others might think. personally f*em. you do what you feel right inside of you. if guys it's what you like than dont fight the feeling, except it. there is no shame in being gay.
you have my support 110%
2006-08-18 08:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try to get a girl and a guy together and have them both at the same time and see which one you do the most to, and see which you enjoy the most
2006-08-18 08:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i definitely think u r gay!!!
But i could let my hobby check that out for u. u actually doin it would open ur eyes some more and help u realise that u r indeed gay.HAHA
2006-08-18 08:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not gay. You just haven't found the right girl.
2006-08-18 08:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep your gay but don't feel bad about it you are what you are so embrace it and love who you are!
2006-08-18 08:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid lables. keep trying until you find the right fit, regardless of what gender that fit may be.
2006-08-18 08:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you have bisexual tendencies, although you seem to really more into men than women.
2006-08-18 08:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by greenejl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,but I would seek help.God made Adam and Eve,not Adam and Steve.
2006-08-18 08:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋