me and my boyfriend broke up way back and i went to a party wed and i got drunk and he found out and now hes pissed @ me im no longer with him why should he care what i do? i never drink it was a one time thing .could he still have feelings for me or does he really care about me? i was already depressed cuz it didnt seem lik he cared about me sooo i decided to drink i mean everyone does. no biggie
hes leaving in 4 days and he hasnt asked to see me and i dont want him to leave without saying goodbye
what should i do?!!! please give me good advice i lvoe him soooo much
2006-08-18 07:24:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get over him, quit drinking and find something positive for you to do. Get a makeover, change your hair style, get new clothes, and forget about him. You are a beautiful woman who should not cry over a man!
2006-08-18 07:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nick's Mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just buy him a going away card and take it over to him don't wait for him to call and say hey i'm leaving show more concern and then he will know you really cared. The reason he is mad about the party is because he still has feeling for you and deep inside he wants to be with you but he's just being a typical guy and playing the hard to get back role. Dont miss seeing his face for the last time or until the next time. Take control and go see him first.
2006-08-18 07:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he cares about you. At least about your health and well being. He doesn't want to hear that you are doing things that are out of character for you. Drinking when you are depressed can lead to some stupid behavior. Trust me on that. As for him leaving in four days I would contact him and just tell him you would like to have a chance to talk with him before he leaves. Then I would apologize for acting in a way that was not usual for you and tell him that you didn't mean to scare him but you are not doing well with the break up. If he refuses to meet with you then you will just have to accept that answer and move on.
2006-08-18 07:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i visit thoroughly understand why you're worried. yet relax - lets seem at this logically. If she referred to as you back and apologized and grow to be nevertheless keen to loaf round back yet again ( tonight) then she is of route saying definite even as she might want to have merely reported no in the first position. definite, some ladies are wishy washy about hurting men' emotions and cant say no rapidly, inspite of the undeniable fact that it truly relies upon on each and each human being lady and that i cant recognize for constructive which one she is. yet opportunities are extreme she is merely busy and fewer than pressure, and she does opt to work out you in some unspecified time sooner or later - possibly no longer as a lot as you opt to work out her yet, yet there is an rather good type of skill for her to get there and prefer you merely as a lot as you want her. it truly is a touch weird and wonderful that she wouldnt merely say - yeah lets do 9 so as that i visit for constructive be abode by technique of then and advised you she will be able to call instead - inspite of the undeniable fact that it would want to be merely that she needed to be more effective versatile and information and needs to go back over once she receives off after 7 instead of waiting for the affixed later time of 9......
2016-11-26 00:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by rogowski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. See if he feels the same. Maybe he is hurt too and wants you back or maybe he is upset and thinks you don't care about him. Who knows what guys always think. The truth is you'll never know unless you ask right?
Good luck!
2006-08-18 07:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like he still has feeling for you. Call him ask him way he was so upset, and if he still has feelings for you. before it's too late tell him how you feel and ask him whats he's going to do then he may need sometime to think about it but let him know about your feelings but remember ask him how he feels first and hear his answer. then make a decision whether to move on or wait but don't wait too long.
2006-08-18 07:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he cares and still has feelings for u,
He doesnt want u too start drinking because when ppl drink,, they act stupid and dont know what their doing*not saying ur stupid* mmkay but you should ask him if he wants to take a walk and talk about it
2006-08-18 07:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by rawr_its_ashley_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously really cares about you so was worried that you were turning to alcohol to solve depression. by ignoring you now he is just trying to make u mad just like he was when he found out u drank. im sure he will say good bye to you.. if not then hes pretty shitty
2006-08-18 07:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and say goodbye. You have already broken up; so mean it this time when you say it and let it be. Wish him well and move on. He no longer has a say in your decisions, if he ever did.
2006-08-18 07:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think oyu should tell him ur sorry in the cutest way possible and if he still likes you he would turn around and kiss u and then tell u he's still in love with you too.
2006-08-18 07:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by priestrada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋