How do you guys stay faithfull?

Question

I'm married with kids, yet everywhere I look there are pretty women who smile at me and want to talk (sometimes more than talk). On the way to work, in the buses and subways, at work just about every place I look, and even in my own neighborhood, the married one's have no shame!

I've treid to ignore them, and that works for like 3 or 4 months at a time, but ultimatly, I breakdown and make a move.

How do you guys stay faithfull?

Answer 1

It is easy when I keep in mind that there are guys out there doing the same thing to my wife (trying to make a play on her). It is also easy because I have kids that I love and I would miss them if I did something stupid like throw it all away for some woman who is selfish and does not care about my wife and kids, or me, for that matter. She only cares about what she gets and what she wants. I have someone committed who waits for me....I never forget that.

Answer 2

Try telling your wife casually (little by little) about these women who give you this extra attention. Tell her in a way so she knows that you don't like it. This way she is in the loop of what is going on, and this might help you feel more guilt about interacting with the other women. You'll know that she knows, so when it happens again you can (hopefully) reject the other women. Make sure to tell your wife about that too! She'll love hearing that. I know I do. You don't need to exaggerate. You can say the women are attractive. It will make her feel so loved, respected, special, and safe hearing that you told off pretty women for her. It will also make her appreciate you knowing that you are turning down attractive women for her. You can something like "today something weird happened. This attractive woman on the subway just started talking/flirting wih me and asked where I was going. But don't worry baby, I told her that I was on my way home to my beautiful wife..." you get the idea. Whether or not you actually say stuff like that or not to these women, well that's up to you. But it would help if you did.

good luck, and if you really do want to be faithful to your wife, then you will. and this WILL help. trust me.

Answer 3

Well if you were really happy with your wife than you wouldn't have a wandering eye or well you know. There is something you feel is missing from your marriage that makes you want to go to other women. Maybe you like the thrill.

Put yourself in your wife's shoes. What would you do if you found out she cheated on you multiple times?

Answer 4

you should think of the true love u have with your spouse and even though these women might offer a temporary satisfaction its not real love and its not gonna change your life. Being happily married can give u more satisfaction than a quickie with some stupid hoe who could care less about u.

Answer 5

By sincerely never entertaining the notion that cheating is ever an option. You'd be amazed how little trouble you'll get into if you never put yourself in a position to get caught up in some mess.

Answer 6

I stay faithful be reminding my self that its cheaper for me to keep my wife and kids than to mess around and ruin my life with having another family to feed.

Answer 7

Disgusting. You stay faithful by realizing the commitment you made to your wife, and how much pain it would cause her to know what you are doing. How sad that she settled for someone like you.

Answer 8

EASY LOVE CHERISH AND HONOR.RESPECT THE ONE YOUR WITH,PROBLEMS? GET THEM WORKED OUT THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE.YOU MARRIED HER FOR BETTER OR WORSE.GET HELP AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.GOD LOVES YOU BOTH <

Answer 9

staying faithful is easy.. but you have to be totally commited to your wife.

Answer 10

It's called maturity!!

Try it sometime!