a software that can track everymove a someone made on a computer and get passwords from anyones email my space or anything that needs a password, and she went through all my things...she found nothing but I'm thinking about leaving her because that psycho right.....I mean it makes me so angry that the woman i loved and married would go behind my back and do something like that....she's crazy i think...I dont know what to do i'm so angry and to think i sent her flowers to her work today,
2006-08-18 07:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by wcenice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are trust issues huh? Do you think it has anything to do with what you say and what you do? Why do you want to leave her do you have good reasons? Are you looking for other women on-line? - Doesn't matter!
If she didn't find anything laugh it off even if she did find something laugh it off, you aren't going to find another like her, be flattered that she cares that much still to go looking at what you're doin' on-line but it makes you wonder what she's doin' or what had pushed her to do something like that to begin with!
How nice flowers? Today at work! Keep it up brownie point maker! That's really nice of you and to think you were mad, she must have said sorry!
2006-08-18 07:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels insecure about your relationship. Have you cheated on her in the past? Has she had previous relationships where she was cheated on? Does she know that you found out about the software? If not, inform her that you have and your very upset and refuse to live and be in a relationship like this. Relationships are about trust and if she feels that she can't trust you (and you haven't given her any reason not to trust you) she has somethings that she needs to work out. Tell her to try counseling or you guys can try couples counseling to figure out were all this insecurity stems from and you'll also have someone impartial to help you work through it.
2006-08-18 15:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least she didn't find anything bad. Something must have made her suspicious. I used the software to check my ex's and I found him cheating. Yes it is wrong and its like invading your privacy but when a woman is insecure we sometimes like to check up on the men. Talk to her and ask her why she did it. Marriage is open minded and you shouldnt have to hide anything from her not even passwords..
2006-08-18 14:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by onefinedayitwillb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should feel offended. Why are you worried about it unless you have something to hide? A marriage should be open between you, so you shouldn't worry too much about it. Although I understand if there are things you only want the guys to know, but I'd recommend endorsing it as a way to stay accountable to her.
2006-08-18 14:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by STEPHEN J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad that she felt she had to look through your things. I know she violated your trust, but she is your wife so isn't she worth forgiving and finding out why she did it. With so many people to talk with on the Internet these days, people get jealous and sometimes wonder. Have you never heard of the stories about "no my husband would never do that?" and then find out by "snooping" that he did. Be upset about what she did, but love her more to find out why she felt so insecure.
2006-08-18 14:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by sweetvamp 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should apologize for going through the software. But the real question is, why did you have it in the first place??
2006-08-18 14:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that she is controlling, as the other poster stated, but concerned. How are you treating her? What's going on behind the scenes? Talk and get it all out.
2006-08-18 14:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by rmdybles30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she must have thought that you were cheating on her. Does she know that you know? if not, have some fun with it and make her feel really bad for thinking that you did not love her. Play her for a bit and see just how strong your relationship is before giving up because she cared enough to try to see if you were cheating... if she does know that you know, just ask her why???
2006-08-18 14:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Settle down. My goodness are you looking over your shoulder as you type. You sound a little scared.
2006-08-18 14:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she feel the need to be so controlling?
2006-08-18 14:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋