So Iam involved with this girl and me and her seem to like eachother ALOT and that's all cool but we seem to like eachother more at different times then the other. Like when Iam not with her I think about her all the time and call her at least every other day but she NEVER calls me so I always start to think she has lost intrest in me or something. But when Iam with her she is always all over me and kissing me every second and telling me how much she loves me and stuff so I tend to get confused. And she tells me that she gets confused because I seem to like her alot only over the phone or computer but when we are together she says I tend to back off. It's like she only shows me she has intrest in me when we are together and I only show intrest in her when we are apart...Is this Bad??? Is this weird???
2006-08-18 06:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by Faye 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No No No...Absolutely not...Some people are like that who live in the environment they are in. Say, when you are not around, she manages or rather gets used to the atmosphere she is in. Which way,she fails to get an opportunity to think about you. Shut her in an empty room with her mobile phone without yo uaround...she will call you up umpteen times. But this doesnt mean that she is faking when you are with her.Her enthusiasm is much much more greater when you are around....Simple!!! Do i sound confusing??
2006-08-18 07:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by vIcKy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's weird. Maybe you're just shy around her. Besides, people are always braver when we don't have the person in front of us. I walys tend to talk and talk over the phone or chat, but when I have her in fron of me...oh my, I freeze. So I guess it's normal, don't worry. I'm somewhat like you.
Good luck!
2006-08-18 15:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya'll just aren't meshing. It's always different when you're with someone. When you're on the computer you can be anything you want to be and pretty much the same with the phone. It's different face to face. Sounds like ya'll just aren't clicking.
2006-08-18 16:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're both scared of intimacy, in, like, polar opposite ways. you should have a good talk about it and work it out. communication is the only solution. tell each other what you expect of this. what you feel. good luck.
2006-08-18 17:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gay or a lesbian, but if this is happening then maybe the relationship isn't for the best. And if your like that have you ever thought that it might be you that isn't soo in to it??? Think about . And if you belive in it its not wiered. :)
2006-08-18 14:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by suprstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is weird , but you both can't be the same, best couples ever are the ones that are different
2006-08-18 14:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by maltese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to relax and go with the flow more...too much energy on who likes who, who doesn't like who....to what end...it either works or it doesn't. Chill and let things go as they will. Good luck
2006-08-18 14:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absense makes the heart grow fonder for you. She gets frustrated and lonely when you are absent.
2006-08-18 14:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too young for any sort of intimate relationship. Talk to your g/f and discuss you real feelings.
2006-08-20 07:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to sit down and have a talk with her about your relationship.
2006-08-19 10:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋