Besides the fact you just wonna kill them..But can't ..What would be a great way to get back at them and make them regret they ever hurt you ??
2006-08-18 06:55:31 · 23 answers · asked by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello, There are many ways but honestly what it the since it'll never change the fact that he cheated on you and he hurt you.. it is what it is... It's not him you need to woory about now ...he made his chioce... it's about you now. .you live and you learn... learn from this... it only makes you a stronger and more aware of how people can be all about self...self...self.... it's his lose. you deserve better and if he is a cheater no good will come to him in the end and he will think about you in the long run. or maybe he'll find someone he cares about down the road and they cheat on him.. then he'll think about how he hurt you... what goes around comes around sooner or later.i do believe that and i have seen it happen too many times.people don't think when there doing wrong by another person. they only think when it's done to them. he will have his day of looking back on the things that he did to hurt people. revenge solves nothing it only makes things worse be the stonger person.it hurts you dont understand why. but you know what . you shouldn't have to answer for other peoples stupidity and wrongs. find better...you'll be the better person when it's all said and done.
2006-08-18 07:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back at an ex that has hurt you is to move on and be happy ...don't let them have any satisfaction in seeing you sad or angry your giving them power over you ..I know it's hard but really why be angry or sad over losing a person that has cheated on you just thank them for getting out of your life and send his/ or her ( for you guys out there) current partner a condolence card cuz the cheating person is now their problem not yours... so be happy that's my way of getting back...
2006-08-18 07:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving him...
I mean what can hurt more than hurting a person with so much love in their heart that they can forgive you.
Don't cheat on him because you are just hurting yourself if you did that, but he is your ex... so that means you broke it up...
Good, we have to take out the negative relationships, so we can move on.
Actually forgeting it, letting go. Showing that it doesn't affect you. Moving on, getting something better to do than being with a cheater...
Have positive activities that will help you become a better person, and never do what he did.
Look for God...
God Bless You
AJ
2006-08-18 07:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by I have the Joy of the Lord! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and be happy within yourself. Revenge will only bring you more pain and suffering, with the issue not being resolved. Cheating would not be an option as it will hurt you more in the end. Best of luck and hold your chin up high.
2006-08-18 07:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by bluemoody40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure when you see him you look fine as hell and are having the best time and not giving them a second thought. Then if he's got a girl, be friendly to her, which will make him sweat cuz he'll think you guys are becoming buddies and then you'll tell her his dirty little secret - that's he's a cheater and can't be trusted. Then forget it and get on with life. He'll get his one day.
2006-08-18 07:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well here's a story of how i got back...my ex cheated on me so i broke up...kept on asking me to go back with ihm but i said no, once another girld was interested in him and he was too, i called him and we got back, the girl got a gf so i broke up..i did that for 2 months until he figured it out...when he did so he came into my house crying like a baby and said, and i quote,:" so this is how it feels to be played and get hurt, (he got on both on his knees), i am so sorry, i am so sorry...i messed up in the past but we can still make it work, let's give it a go"...well when he said that...i told him to get up, took his hands and looked at him straigh into his eyes and said " i dont **** or go out with loosers" dude that line was from cruel intentions...it worked and i felt great! FYI he still calls me till this day to say we can work things out and we officially broke up 4 years ago! yes i am a ***** sue me!!!
2006-08-18 07:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is in to vengeance, the best way to get back at them is to break up with him and keep it moving. It takes energy and time that can be spent doing other things, so do those other things and keep this negative energy out of your life
2006-08-18 07:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign him up for a gay chat line and talk the guy on the other end up to meet and have a hot chick ask him out to meet in the same place the hot chick will stand him up and he will have an uncomfortable situation to deal with
2006-08-18 07:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING, you loved this person to begin with... and you wanted that person to be happy.... why torment yourself... Time heals all wounds... if someone ask? tell the truth... the truth hurts so good... revenge is great.. but could slap you in the face.. My EX, did wrong..... she lost all and I wish her the best......
2006-08-18 07:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by t-boren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋