Jamie is not a boyfriend. Both he and I are too young for a relationship. We are both 13 yrs old. Nevertheless, Im falling in love with him. He feels the same way about me and has expressed that he loves me. I met him through day camp this summer and I started to tutor him for money. He's in Special Education. He's the sweetest most innocent boy you could imagine. He's tall and thin but extremely strong because he exercises constantly, with the face of an angel. He's gentle and kind and is incesscently teased by other boys. They call him sissy, gay, etc. He never reacts to the teasing in a physical way. The only time he hurt another boy was one time in day camp the kids were teasing me about how "uncool" it was for me to be with a retard and I must be a "retard" too. I told them to stop and they continued teasing me. Than Jamie took action and hit the head boy and threw him into a fence. He got suspended for that from camp and grounded by his mom. I love him.
2006-08-18 06:41:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
no don't change school just to be with him and besides if you changed school you would be in different classes anyway because he would be in special ed classes. just continue to be his friend no matter what other people say. there should be more people in the world like you
2006-08-18 18:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to seriously wonder about the quality of your "gifted program" if you are seriously considering this. Hmmm, let's see...quality education that will serve you for the rest of your life, or some adolescent puppy love that will end in heartbreak and pregnancy like all those other 13-year old "love stories" you read about. In all seriousness, let's be real here. You're 13, you have no idea what love is, you won't even be the same person in 3 years. Do something with a lasting positive impact and get the best education you can.
2006-08-18 07:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lmeister 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i might pass with the immersion software for now. i replaced into - and nevertheless am - a gifted and gifted student besides, and it rather is extremely a super ingredient, yet remarkable now you may desire to take earnings of his youthful age and enable him learn Spanish. as quickly as he gets older, he can nevertheless connect a gifted software in basic terms as honestly, yet he won't have the skill to learn Spanish rather as honestly. I discovered chinese language as we communicate while i replaced into very youthful, and then Spanish in center college, or perhaps in spite of the undeniable fact that throughout the time of my opinion chinese language is the greater no longer common language, I communicate fluent Mandarin at the same time as I nevertheless have difficulty conserving up with a Spanish verbal exchange. Your gifted youthful guy does not would desire to pass over out on some factors of the gifted software, the two. See in case you will get any books or something to help him at abode to learn issues previous that of the time-honored kindergarten curriculum. Our community college library has many textbooks and such for academic purposes - if there is any comparable source availible to you, use that so it is common to help your gifted toddler via no longer common his innovations and shifting him forward. instruct him some first grade fabric, and then 2nd grade fabric next 365 days, etc, conserving him very practically a 365 days previous to the others, which will style of be what maximum gifted curriculums instruct. additionally, concentration plenty on creativity and mind's eye, via fact it is likewise an substantial element of gifted classes. sturdy luck, and that i applaud you for elevating a gifted boy!
2016-09-29 10:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never. You might not want to hear this but your 13, you might think that your in love but trust me, its probably just puppy love. I've been there. I dated a wrestler's brother and I was all like, "OMGosh, I love this guy. One day I want to marry him and be (the wrestler's name, not going to mention it)'s sister in law." When we broke up, yea I was sad about it but now when I look back at it, I wasn't in love at all. I've experienced love before. But, I think you being in a gifted program is awesome. You can learn more than someone else your age. When you apply for college, thats going to be a good thing on your college application. If you give that up so you can go to school with him, you might not be in a gifted program and you wont have anything really to put on your college application.
2006-08-18 07:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and Jamie have a great friendship that shouldn't be wasted, but, still, don't switch schools.
You were smart enough to get in the gifted program; don't waste that, either. You can spend lots of time with him without giving up your education.
2006-08-18 08:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never give up education for a boy...education lasts boys don't. Take it from someone who gave up far to much to make boys happy. He seems like a nice boy by your description however it sounds to me like you could never be much more than friends. First crushes are hard but you need to be his friend...he may not have the ability to "love" you in the way that you do him.
2006-08-18 06:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by vieveia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't bother reading all of your question. DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR A BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are a 13 year old girl. You need to worry about your studies and your girlfriends. DO not give up what you have worked for the last 13 years of your life for some boy.
2006-08-18 06:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by little fairy lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I admire you for being so loyal to your friend. FRIENDS can remain friends for life, so I'm glad you are not getting involved in a relationship with him at this time.
As for your school question; No, you should not change your classes to be with him. You can talk on the phone, text message, talk on the computer, etc., but don't change your classes.
He is very lucky to have someone like you in his life. Tell him to ignore the nasty comments.. People who make remarks like that are ignorant.
You both sound like wonderful, caring people.
Good luck.
2006-08-18 07:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never ever ever ever ever ever ever change your life for a man unless there is a ring on your finger. You're 13, you don't want to look back and regret not staying with the program.
2006-08-18 10:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by ronnieneilan1983 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
So many GT (gifted and talented) kids date the special ed kids. I thought it was just at my school, but apparently it's not.
-Iman J.
2006-08-18 10:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋