I will never marry if they have to be there . Id rather die alone than have them at my wedding
2006-08-18 06:31:36 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes u have to invite ur family.
2006-08-18 06:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. You don't have to invite anyone. It's your wedding and your day. However, I will tell you that it will make for some hurt feelings if you hold the wedding in the same town that your family lives in. And they will never let you live it down (my brother did that to my family--we still haven't totally forgiven him yet).
My advice to you: go to another town to get married, maybe even get married in the same place where you plan to take your honeymoon. That way, you can just tell everyone that you decided to get married there (if you feel the need you can add that you didn't think they could afford to come, or that you decided to elope, or whatever to keep people from getting upset with you).
2006-08-18 06:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by libraryn71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like many things, you don't have too but it looks better. If you don't feel good in their presence then don't invite them. You can always do a small wedding and invite only close friends and part of his family for example. Marry in a place you like but your family don't ;-)
2006-08-18 06:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your wedding and you can invite anyone you want. I'd suggest that you go away to get married or elope. That way no one will want to spend the money to see you get hitch. If you elope then you can say it's too late for guests!!! Neither would be your fault and there would be no hard feelings. If anyone asks just say, no one was invited because there wouldn't be any hard feelings from those who wouldn't be there.
2006-08-18 06:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think etiquette dictates that family should be invited (especially to a first wedding) but personally, I say it's your wedding you invite who you want.
2006-08-18 06:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by ladystyx1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get married, you get to invite the people you want to be there. There is no law saying that family has to be there, and anyways, family, real family doesn't have to be a bllod relative. I consider most of my real friends more family that blood relatives.
2006-08-18 06:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by tat2jug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. its you wedding you can invite and not invite who ever who want..You should be forced to invite anyone , even tho they are your family members.
Good look with ur marriage..
2006-08-18 06:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you don't have to invite your family. You might crush their hearts, but it's your wedding and your decision, so do what you want.
2006-08-18 06:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe that if you got married that you would have to invite your family...when i get married i am going to invite any one that i want weather its family,friends,coworkers.strangers.....if my family doesnt like it tough...
2006-08-18 06:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Girl 24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite me instead!
I think you might have to invite them, though I understand the feeling of not wanting them to be there.
2006-08-18 06:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the cercumstances. If you think there is one bit of a possibility you will one day reconcile with them, invite them. If not, then you have the option to opt them out.
It's YOUR Day ... you can pretty much do what you want.
2006-08-18 06:38:32 · answer #11 · answered by pickle head 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋