Is anyone else out there stuck in a boring relationship?.?

Question

Would like to leave but do not want to upset my children.

Answer 1

in the same boat has you. relationship is so boring and dull that watching paint dry is more fun and that no joke. but serious have you tried talking to him and explaining how you feel. I know you don't want to upset your kids but there not stupid and will know that something is wrong at the end the of the day isn't it better for them to have 2 happy single parents then 2 very unhappy ones. I know it will be hard to start with but will get easier.
you only get one life so make sure it is a happy one life is to short for regret. good luck

Answer 2

It sounds like your stuck in a rut. If the love and trust is still there, you may both want to find ways to put the excitement back into the relationship. There are many Internet sites with good idea's.
If you really want to leave, talk about it first, It's better to end it when your still friends. As once you have made that decision it's hard to go back. I'm sure in time your children will understand, as it's better to have happy separated parents, as opposed to those who stay together for the sake of the children and are very unhappy.

Answer 3

No but i was for about seven long years so i know hoe you feel i didnt have children so it made it easier when i finally snapped now i have a new girlfriend and am on top of the world, i take it the kids would stay with you, deep down hun you know what you want and need you know you do so go with those real feelings just remember tread carefully those little ones of yours are the most important things to consider.
Good luck x

Answer 4

Your not on your own there love, lots of people feel like this at some time or another. What i will say is though it can often cause more harm than good to stay with your partner for the sake of the children. They would rather have two happy parents separated than two miserable parents together.

Answer 5

There are so many of us in this situation. How do you work out what to do for the best? I wish I knew. My kids are older but would still be hurt if I left him - then I also lose my animals (cant take them to rented accommodation) and everything else. But you gain freedom ultimately. If anyone has the answer they would make a fortune.

Answer 6

It takes two to tangle. Maybe your partner is bored with you as well. Why don't you find common ground to enjoy. Try t improve things before calling it a day, as there are far worse situations to end a relationship other than being bored.

Find a good reason to have a better realtionship or a better reason to finish it.

Answer 7

I m not just bored, i m in a prison.-- first of all i was married once before for a long time. it was a great marriage. it was so hard to get over him (death) . it took me five years. and this guy really did a number on me. we live at least 40min was city. in a very small town. i gave up my job. don't see any of my friends. he controls money gas for my car. i don't even get to go to the store to buy food. i am trying to find a job, and when i do I'm gone.

Answer 8

i feel like this some days, but my children are so young and i love my hubby but our relationship is a bit boring. i am in it for the long haul though so if i find i am feeling like this more often than i shall tell my hubby. which i think you should tell yours. But in a nice way.

Answer 9

I m, but I have 2 kids 11 and 2 , and i guess she is too

Answer 10

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