i mailed my husband by some other id .. pretending to be other female and my husband planned his date ( not knowing its his wife) . the same day when he came back from work he was acting funny .. showing that his got hell load of work .. he didn even talk to me .. inspite he asked me to go to india for holidays .
(he thought he wud have fun with this disguised lady )
next day i scared him by mailing through same id that all his mail transcripts will be sent to his wife .
now when he came home he was normal .. he even sound more cheerful , he didn have any work . which really confused me . now i feel he s not trustworthy.
2006-08-18 06:19:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have a perfect term for this in America....... DUH.
2006-08-18 06:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd confront him amd remind him of the vows he took as your husband, that you are not boy friend girlfriend where he can do as he pleases with whoever. Tell him that you are his faithful wife and you expect him to be just the same. And if he says some BS Like I'm the man, and I pay the bills so I can do what I want. Tell him to be a man means not just being responible to bills to but being responsible in his marriage too!
2006-08-18 06:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's scared. Without knowing what you wrote in the emails, can't be sure. He could feel relief that he didn't get caught by some crazy lady, I would watch him. Because he did make the date, so I wouldn't completely trust him, yet. Because he still did wrong. I am hoping he just realized how lucky he was that you didn't find out, and leave him.
God bless us all....................
2006-08-18 06:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the type of excellent be conscious to apply in any difficulty, and communication is the most to any relationship. Loving someone ability loving them no count number what. Its not user-friendly to work out even if it sounds very very similar for your retaining on to an theory particularly then a feeling. in case you loved this boy then those thoughts might want to continually proceed to be and also you'll not want to ask the question to attempt back. in case you loved him as a pal / brother man or woman even if the type of affection might want to also proceed to be. you want to artwork out in case you do genuinely love him or if it really is only a passing element. And in case you needs to entice close you, then supply it time to work out what he's keen to furnish. He might want to in spite of everything evaluate you as only a pal he might want to favor to talk with.
2016-11-05 02:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't prove that he's cheating on you now, but he may have cheated in the past or he may be looking to cheat. My husband and I did marriage counseling. I don't care what people say it REALLY worked for us. Did you confront him on it? Good Luck!
2006-08-18 06:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is , e-mail back or make another e-mail up . follow threw with making planns with him for a date .do not let him know any thing is up .. you show uo at the place were he is to have a date . then let him have it . this way you know he is ready to go farther from your marragie ,
2006-08-18 06:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats entrapment...if you don't fess up and be honest how can you expect him to! everyone is gonna go after a bit o strange if they know they won't get caught.
how do you expect to go forward if he knows there is something over his head! or both of them Lorena
2006-08-18 06:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband have a serious communication problem.
2006-08-18 06:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is cheating on you because you're such a *****. Why play stupid games like that and tweak with his head? You're a sick sick lady.
2006-08-18 06:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too had same experiance...but still i'm staying with my hubby because i have two kids.....Men are not trustworthy
2006-08-18 06:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by neena j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the odds are that he is not trustworthy.
2006-08-18 06:34:28 · answer #11 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋