2006-08-18 05:58:49 · 12 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best way to keep a guy's interest, Lovely B, is to discover what makes him love you. Does he like to hold hands (touching)? Does he react positively when you give him a gift? Does he "glow" when you pay attention to what he says, and give him emotional feedback? Does he like it when you do things for him, such as cook a nice dinner? Discover what it is that gets that appreciative look on his face, then focus on that.
I would not recommend holding-out sex... it's a negative approach to a relationship, and he'll just despise you for holding-out.
Since it appears that you care a lot about him, let's hope that he has not lost interest in you, or found someone else. If that's the case, nothing you do will keep his interest, and it's time to consider moving on.
2006-08-18 06:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really depends on your mans personality. and how the two of you interact.
This is just my opinion i do not want to jump threw hoops to be able to get into my GF's cookie jar. If i feel i that's the case i look else where and will soon show you the door.
More to the root of your question i believe you should find out if you both have similar interests or not. Naturally your going to like doing things he doesn't and visa versa. If you care about this relationship you both will want to do involving each other. This is going to build your love for each other and sex wont be a reward but an act of caring
Signed Tim
2006-08-18 07:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by ssshoebox67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, sex should be the outcome of some thing positive and not used as a manipulation tool ever. When you do that, it's like your prostituting yourself on some level (you'll give him what he love if only he gives you what you want). Holding out focuses him on your crotch not on you which will definitely cause him to lose interest in you be cause you yourself place your value on what's between your legs.
2006-08-18 08:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sup... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to find a way to keep a guy interested, it's not worth it. True happiness comes when both people are themselves. If the chemistry is right you will always be interested in each other.
2006-08-18 06:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by NIKKI K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't hold out on sex, you think of different ways to have sex.
2006-08-18 06:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when me and my husband meet he kissed my cheek the first night. within a week he moved in with me to help me out cause i was a single parent. he slept there but we didn't have sex for 2 months we really just slept. we are now married and i still talk about how sweet he was to wait until i was ready. if a man don't want to wait for you to be ready then he is not the man for you.
2006-08-18 06:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by ms01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think it depends on the bloke!
Some guys are nice and some are dirty shagabouts!
2006-08-18 06:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jellybones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hold out on sex to get what you want you are a whore
2006-08-18 06:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by badbad_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on his type. in my case (i am very unfaithful..) just being myself is enaugh. and i suggest that you also try to find guys for whom being yourself is enaugh. no compromises until at least 5 years of relationship. now it depends on how much you need affection, finding that might take time..
2006-08-18 06:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by vie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a firm grip on the remote....
tom
2006-08-18 06:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋