2006-08-18 05:37:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't know you, so you may already do some/all of these things. But here are some good ways to make yourself more popular and lovable:
1. Bathe daily
2. Brush your teeth after every meal.
3. Smile frequently.
4. Don't feel like you have to answer every question or speak when it is quiet.
5. Read newspapers and books.
6. Help people whenever you can.
7. Do something nice anonymously every day.
8. Be respectful to your elders and kind to people younger than you.
9. Keep body piercings and tattoos to a minimum.
10. Watch your diet and physical condition. A healthy mind lives in a healthy body.
Just some random thoughts...
2006-08-18 05:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by pvreditor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by doing a self-evaluation. Ask yourself what you do or don't like about yourself. Identify your strengths and weaknesses. Acknowledge your victories and defeats. Ask yourself why you feel the need to seek approval from others. Learn to love yourself. Your faith may be in question. Come to terms with it. When you love the Lord, you realize that He makes your existence possible and that you are worthy of His love and if God is for you, no weapon formed against you shall prosper. LOVE GOD. Then Love Yourself. The love of others will fall into place.
2006-08-18 05:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will love u 4 who u r and if they cannot appreciate u for the qualities that u possess and the content of ur character thenthey are not worth being your friend. Don't live under false pretenses to attract others, if they like u when u r not urself then they still don't love u at all. one advice
NEVER DIE TO FIT IN BECAUSE U R BORN TO STAND OUT! always remeber that
2006-08-18 05:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love yourself first, and improve what you do not like, as long it's in reason. People to love you...?...get some help self books or/and go to this site "bodymindspirit@care2.com The need for people to love you, it just seems weird that you say this.
2006-08-18 06:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by wilfredo a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop right there! You don't improve yourself so people will love you! You improve yourself because it makes you happy, and makes you proud of yourself! If you are not happy with yourself, no one else will be either!
2006-08-18 05:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by loudes21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find the happinss in u and u will see the change....when ur happy people will love u for who u are trust me opn this one
2006-08-18 05:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Fren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a professor tell me(and I will never forget it)...
If you want to see a change in others behavior towards you...you may want to start with yourself.
You first need to feel positive and good about yourself...
2006-08-18 05:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don;t know what is wrong with you.Do the whole man in the mirror thing and figure out if you have any traits that people would find unappealing and change them
2006-08-18 05:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. have problems with that myself. i just decided to be myself and sooner or later someone would love me for me. and they did! not many to be sure, but enough...
2006-08-18 05:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by sheepherder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not design yourself and MAKE ppl love you! You're just being silly, aren't you?
2006-08-18 05:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋