Probably no big deal, but I have found 2 hair bobbles down the back of the couch on two seperate occassions within a couple of weeks. They are defintley not mine as i have never bought that certain colour or style. What do you think?
2006-08-18 05:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by Kimber1984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Answer to somebodys question earlier.
The couch isnt brand new it was second hand when i bought it, but as i have kids i need to hover underneath the cushions every week, or whenever i have time so i would have noticed the bobble earlier if it had been there.
Somebody asked if my boyf has cheated before, i dont think so but i dont know for sure, if he has cheated i havent found anything to prove it anyway and he hasnt been caught.
He does have some female friends, but i have never seen them in the house they usually chat in the front garden.
I have asked him about the hair bobbles, and he just said that they were probably mine, and he dosent know who's they are. Then he accused me of being suspicious. I couldnt tell if he was lying or not, sometimes he hides it well.
2006-08-18 07:21:31 · update #1
Are you two the only two people who have ever sat on the couch?
Did you buy the couch brand new?
If so the answer is maybe.
2006-08-18 05:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, this does sound suspicious, give it some more time and see if you find anymore. if a girl ties her hair back alot i would doubt she leave abobble behind because she would have to leave with her hair down,but maybe she wears a few and dropped one.Any way there must be an explaination for them being there. Just get the bobbles and ask him if you know whos they are because they are not yours if he looks a little sheepish then he is deffinalely cheating,I would check behind the couch when you leave and when you come home everyday, if they appear there then obviously someone else is in the house other than bf or you. Then you can ave it out with him and tell him you have been checkin everyday then see what he has to sat for himself.
2006-08-18 05:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are the only two that live there and they're definitely not yours - then someone's been sitting on that couch. Hair bobbles don't walk.
This doesn't mean that he's cheating - but it suggests that he's not being entirely honest.
2006-08-18 05:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this couch older? They could be from one of your friends who came over or maybe he is cheating? Don't jump to conclusions unless he starts to show other signs like dressing different, wearing cologne, getting his hair cut frequently, working out etc.
If you are really worried, sit him down and ask him....
2006-08-18 05:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They got there somehow right ? I had an ex who cheated on me. I would find the same type of things, hair clips, he would say they belonged to his mother. Took 2 wasted years for the whole truth to come out. You have your proof.
2006-08-18 05:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it eat you up. If he is cheating he will no doubt slip up big time at some point. Try catching him out i.e unexpentantly coming home when he thinks you out all day etc.
2006-08-18 06:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs Captain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a fetish,
this may be embarrassing for him so tread carefully1! only joking
Does he have a female relative that visits?
Does he have female friends?
Has he cheated on you in the past?
Is your relationship solid?
These may answer your question
good luck!
2006-08-18 05:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by ryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions.
and don't confront him ... if he really is cheating he could talk his way out of that one and cover his tracks more carefully in future!
Keep an open mind, but keep a look out.
2006-08-18 05:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by ragdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start worrying when you find panties and not hair bobbles.
2006-08-18 05:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Pete T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. . . so you found 2 hair bobbles, are any of your clothes missing ? . . .
2006-08-19 13:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋