love is hard!?

Question

..hello everyone...basically me and my ex went out for a couple of months but meanwhile we broke up because of different issues(too long to explain), but basically last month before i went on holiday he phoned and i was surprised because we hadn't been talking properly and he asked me how i was, what i was doing, whether i was seeing this boy...then that same night he texted me goodnite n apologised for all the things he did in the past that may not have pleased me. Then i went on hol and i just couldnt stop thinking about him, i even dreamt him nearly every night. However it's been a month and I haven't heard from him. The questions are 1) do you think he's over me and doesn't care about me anymore? 2)and do you believe that when you dream someone so often it's because they 2 r thinking bout u? Also i keep on thinkin that perhaps he's just found some1 else because of all the girls that there are out there but if he realli loved me thn do you think he stil would?

Answer 1

If he is into you, he will come back to you. Dont force it. If he is not into you, let him go. There are plenty of single guys out there that can appreciate you.

Answer 2

if he really wanted u back, he would do anything and everything to get you. that's the things about men....if they really love you, they'll do their best to make their woman happy. if they are lukewarm, unsure, or unable to satisfy the relationship, then there are other factors involved that are preventing him. whether it is not enough love, or just immaturity. i've realized that from my ex; at first i wasn't into him, but he kept trying, and he was able to change my mind, and he became my boyfriend. because he went for what he wanted. he was determined. and that is a great quality..... hard to find, but definitely a great quality. even if in the end, it didnt' work out, i have NO hard feelings towards him, i just know we aren't right for eachother. but i have no questions that he will make a wonderful boyfriend and husband to the right woman. and i needed to have let him go, in order to let him find her. :) if u really love him, u can do something about it. try to contact him. whatever u need to do. *but* listen to ur heart..if u feel that he may hurt u again, or ur scared, there's a reason why. because that trust is not built up yet. therefore, make sure U are healthy and positive, and STRONG first before u go into any relationship, whether w/ ur ex, or someone new. good luck, and always look for what makes you happy in a Good way, that makes ur life better...being sad and pining for someone is love, but not a positive kind.

Answer 3

here, this song explains the feelings...

"Lee Ann Womack Why They Call It Falling lyrics"

It's like jumpin
It's like leapin
It's like walkin on the ceilin
It's like floatin
It's like flyin through the air
It's like soarin
It's like glidin
It's a rocket ship you're ridin
It's a feelin that can take you anywhere

So why they call it fallin
Why they call it fallin
Why they call it fallin
I don't know

There was passion
There was laughter
The first mornin after
I just couldn't get my feet to touch the ground
Every time we were together
We talked about forever
I was certain it was Heaven we had found

So why they call it fallin
Why they call it fallin
Why they call it fallin
I don't know

But you can't live your life
Walkin in the clouds
Sooner or later
You have to come down

It's like a knife
Through the heart
And it all comes apart
It's like someone takes a pin to your balloon
It's a hole
It's a cave
It's kinda like a grave
When he tells you that he's found somebody new

So why they call it fallin
Why they call it fallin
Why they call it fallin
I don't know

Ooh, why they call it fallin
Why they call it fallin
Now I know

Answer 4

I am very sorry to disappoint you, but in my experience, it is often when someone is really happy that they realise the mistakes that they made in the past and try to do what they can to put them right.

You could always contact him in a "Hi how are you doing" friendly way and see what happens though.

And yes, love is hard, something really good is worth the effort though.

Answer 5

He was probably lonely and drunk when he contacted you.
You can never go back. It just doesn't work. You ask anybody if they ever had a relationship which worked second time. No way.

Answer 6

I ask myself that question often " If soembody loves u won't they always love u?" Te answer is yes because u will always have a place in his heart no matter what. oNly Whitney Houston could answer my question and she didn't in her song "Where Do Broken Hearts Go?"

Answer 7

I think he still Love's you. I just couldn't figure out why you broke up when he will just text you out of the Blue, i think its not really understandable

Answer 8

Sounds like he was cleaning his slate. It wasn't about you. Dreams don't usually connect two people like that. There is no reason to think he's thinking about you. I would definitely advise you to move on.

Answer 9

No one ever said it would be easy but if it don"t
happen email me I am single and I think that i am a good person,but that would be left up to you

Answer 10

i usually dream about people and think suddenly about people who think about me, i spoke to my friends few times like "ive dream about you" and he she said, yeah i was think about you or "i was dreaming about you too"
so i do think its connected,


what i think about your BF,
there are few options, he might just want to be nice and say that he is sorry as he understood he hurt you, but if he didnt write to you after you wrote to him than it might be this that he just said sorry and all
but if you did not reply to his smss than he will not write new,
and alwys you can sms him and ask him why did he say that he is sorry, what is the purpose of it.
i thnk that woman should try to be honest with guys... sometimes its nice , especially when there is nothing to lose.