Okay im just 14 turning 15 in a few months. Im just a freshman in high school. And im a virgin....every guy just wants me for sex and i HATE that they all the time come up to me and say when are u going to let me hit it? I just say i dont know and they just touch me and i'll like KEEP ur hands off me!! And alot of those are crazy about sex so, crazy that if they see me alone or something they will try to rape u!!! I hate this i wish would leave me alone!! And they are like 16 or 18 year old boys!! I dont know what to do! And they want me for is sex and i dont want that but im scared if i tell them no they may hurt me!!
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!??
2006-08-18 05:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by Lh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lisa...they just want you for sex. They'll use you and abuse you and then leave you. Its as simple as that. If you're feeling uncomfortable, report these guys. Just go to the office and report them for sexual harrassment. They get into trouble and its anonymous. Most likely if they're acting this way towards you, they are the same way with a LOT of girls your age. You should NEVER be afraid of people forcing you to do something you want. When they ask if they "can hit it"..just tell them "no" in a low, but firm voice and walk away. If they touch you, tell them to stop, if they do it again, then that is DEFINATELY sexual harrassment and NEEDS to be reported. These boys are acting like twelve year olds and they need to learn a lesson. Good luck!!!!
2006-08-18 05:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone at the school...Period. Let them know what's going on and I'm sure they can handle it discretely so as not to get you in trouble with anyone. I'm sorry you're going thru this, but you can continue going thru it alone. Things are very dangerous nowadays and you don't want anything bad to happen. You might also want to sign up for some self-defense classes so if you are ever caught out on your own you can at least do enough to get away from someone. Good luck!
2006-08-18 12:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be alone, don't wear stuff to tease them and tell them NO! If they don't leave you alone then tell someone as you might just get hurt one day and that's the last thing you need is to get raped or hurt. Keep yourself out of situations like that!
2006-08-18 12:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it will be hard but try to always be around a crowd, always have a friend around that's a girl. Some guys just want to take your virginity away from you. Stay strong. Take a karate class or buy a spray mace just in case someone gets to fresh. Good luck.
2006-08-18 12:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off this is sexual harrasment and you need to find a teacher or a trusted adult who you can let them in on what is going on. When you are ready you will know when the time is right for you to give yourself and your body to someone.
Sounds like your school needs to make boys and girls aware of what consist of sexual harrasment. Plus for any boy it would be a conquest to be your first, and yes they would only be using your for sex! They would brag!
2006-08-18 12:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Injunswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what ur going threw were both the same age and I had the same problems exactly like you!!!
But all you have to do is insult them I know it seems a little cruel but I did what I had to do........You don't have to insult them physically but just mentally and emotionally, I had THE most popular boy trying to have sex wit me BUT he will always say when will u let me hit, and I would tell him go and lick BALLS and he would laugh and walk away!! But, the harassing really reduced, but still they were still saying to me "I know you want this!" But I said to them "No, No I know u want this!"
But they know they can't get to me and they REALLY don't consider me EASY like the other gurls, they say I'm hard to get but I'd just laugh and walk away...................................................................TRUST ME THE ADVICE WILL INDEED WORK!!!
2006-08-18 12:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone that way if it does happen like you are playing it out and if someone does really rape you or something like that someone else will know i would tell your mom or an authority figure...tell them they can have sex with you when hell freezes over
2006-08-18 12:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its this move called the ah ha and that is when you swiftly kick a guy in the nuts and say ah ha. Don't forget to run after you do it. it works every time. he want be worried about sex no more.
2006-08-18 12:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Erica j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you walking home alone ? I think you should let the teachers know that they are sexually harassing you because it's gotten to a point that it's making you feel uncomfortable.
2006-08-18 12:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell an adult you can trust and talk to. You need to tell someone this is happening or it will just continue. If its really bad, you could even press charges. Tell someone ASAP
2006-08-18 12:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋