is it possible that someones purpose and point in life is to commit suicide?

Question

If god saids taking your own life is a sin then why dose he allow people to have shitty painful lives.It's only natural that someone with a painful life wants to die.So do you think that it's possible for my purpose in life is to just take my own life because if I contiued it would be more painful and filled with failures???? do you think that's possible??

ok i'm sick of people suggesting shrinks.

gothic barbie I agree with what your saying i think we think alike.

Answer 1

well yeah, everyone says god puts you here for a reason, he doenst just pick and choose who he wants, he puts everyone here with a purpose. but if youre have a shitty and painful life, welcome to a teenagers world. i go through it all the time. and i have friends to talk to and get through times. or i blast loud, up beat music and tune everything else out. i have wanted to die, and like really just wanted it to end, but i talk to my friends and boyfriend and get through it. so my answer, is no i dont think that its possible, people do it because they hate their life at that moment, not because they were told to. god would never do that to anyone. just live your life, it will get better eventually. i promise. i never thought it would. sometimes i still dont think mine will. but i have to listen to my friends and hear them out when they say live it out, and it'll get better, because in the end, when your older and have your own family and what not, it should be better. problems usually dont stay problems forever.
hope i helped :]
contact me if you want to talk. im willing to listen to anything.

Answer 2

No, I don't think that's possible. Here's why:
1st- God doesn't make junk. The junk is created by people's sin.
2nd- If God doesn't create junk than He has a purpose for everyone's life (the Bible calls it abudant life).
3rd- Not everyone finds their purpose because they choose not to find it.
4th--If you haven't found yours you need to start looking for it.
As I am a Christian I would suggest finding a Bible believing church with a group that will accept you just as you are.
If you won't do that or choose not to do that then you need to find out something you can be passionate about (a cause, a project, an idea, a desire, a goal) and go for it as hard as you can. A person with passion is hard to stop (regardless of the circumstances). There is an old proverb that says " How can you expect different results if you keep doing the same things over and over". If that's you you have to change what you are doing first.

One note: you will eventually have to confront the emptiness in your spirit. There is only ONE thing that will fill that void and that is a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. That's it. Only one way. Pick up a Bible and read 1 John, 2 John, and 3 John, then read the Gospel of John. You'll begin to understand when you read it carefully. That relationship will start you on a road to major success because you will live ABOVE your circumstances. That's what abundant life is all about.

Answer 3

God never once guarenteed anyone a happy life.
When Adam and Eve betrayed his trust and partook of the fruit, pain and suffering were brought into the world.

Now you obviously are not religious if your life is so shitty, because a truly faithful person would realize that your life is in your own hands and God is merely a shepard, he can show you the path but cannot walk it for you.

Do not blame your misery on god or others, that will only beget more misery. I am certain that god did not will misery upon you, and I suggest you look to the scriptures for strength during your hard times. Keep your chin up, things will get better.

- Rob

Answer 4

sorry, but that's the lamest excuse. God Shmod, I don't believe one iona that god has anything to do with suicide. Suicide like drinking, smoking and dancing are personal choices that each person makes for themselves.

Seriously, I have the worst temper and I NEVER blame anyone but myself when I get annoyed, because no one can control my emotions but myself.

don't be a debbie downer for attention, not that you are because I don't know you. You're the only person that can say whether or not you will continue living, not even god can prevent a suicide, it's in our souls.

Personally I wouldn't committ suicide because I believe that we keep coming back until we do what we're really suppose to do, then we can find peace. Kind of like groundhogs day, but without bill murray. :)

Buck up and know that everyone feels like crap from time to time and we're all perfectly capable of picking ourselves up and finding a way to make ourselves happy.

DId you ever think that you get what you give. If all you give is negativity and drama, that's what will be returned to you.

Contact someplace and volunteer your time helping someone that feels more helpless then you do. You may be surprised how much better you feel and find some purpose to the sanity of this world.

Answer 5

No I don't think so...it's just that you haven't found your purpose.I have was a failure at everything it seemed.And I tried to attempt to committed suicide because of alot of things that were going on in my life like molestation. But when i grew up I found that my life didn't suck as much as I thought. And I then partial of my purpose in life and that sustain me. The reason why I say partial is because at 27 I still haven't found everything that gives my life meaning but I have found half of it and that it my husband and my kids. You need to go speak with a professional and talk about your feelings and get through this. I know you can I did. I doubt your entire life will be filled with failures. I thought mine would be and I was wrong. I am thankful every day that I survived my attempt Maybe you need to try again or try something else no one is good at everything and most of all think about your family and the hurt that it would cause them forever. Suicide isn't the answer trust me.

Answer 6

God gave man free will. It's your free will to live your life as you chose it, life is truly what you make of it.

But please, take this from someone who has been where you are. It's hard, I know it's hard, but it does get better.

When I was at the point that you are, a friend sent me a Bible, making me promise that I would read it. She also made me promise to pray, at least once a day. If not pray, then at least take a few moments out of my day to just have a moment with God, to talk to Him.

Believe it or not, it's helped. A lot. I am in no way a Bible thumper or 100% religious, but I do believe.

I recommend you the same thing. Pick up a Bible. The best is a study bible that helps you understand what you're reading.

Life Application Study Bible (New International Version) is what I use, it's the best.

Pray about your troubles, have faith that He will send you signs and answers as to what you're real purpose is in life. Or at least (for now) how to get out of whatever situation that you're in that makes you feel this way.

If this doesn't help (or you just don't want to do it that way). Seek help. Even contemplating suicide is dangerous. Regardless of what you may think, there ARE people who love you and would be devastated if they lost you.

I've lost 2 people that were so very, very close to me from suicide and I promise you, it's not worth it.

A lot of cases of talking about suicide are a cry for help and/or attention. Also, those who go through with the suicide think, "I'll show them. They'll miss me when I'm gone."

While that's true. After the grief has passed, anger sets in. I'm still angry as to why the man who was like my dad killed himself 7 years ago.

So to sum this up, pray. Pray, study, have a connection with God. Seek help.

I wish you the very best of luck and my heart goes out to you as I know where you're coming from. If you feel you need someone who may understand you, feel free to contact me. (I promise I won't preach to you. =) )

Answer 7

No. God created us for a reason, asd it WAS NOT to commit suicide. If you take your own life, you go straight to hell, and burn for eternity.
Our lives are what we make them because God allows us freedom of choice. He will never MAKE us do anything. Just because you serve him does not mean you will have an easy life. It simply means he will give you the strength to endure what you face. Our lives are crappy because we make them that way. If we do not live by biblical standards that God has set for our lives, then he allows us that freedom of choice, but we also reap the consequences in our day to day life. Is this His fault? NO! He allows you to choose. If you choose to serve him, he helps you through the down times, and is there with you in the good times too.
People say they live a Christain life, yet they go to work thru the week and lie, cheat and steal, drink on Friday and Saturday night, Smoke a carton of cigarettes a week, and so much more. God said our body is his temple. Think of what some people do to their bodies. Would you what to live in a temple like that?
Think of the pain and the agony he suffered on the cross. Back then, their idea of palms was the wrists, so think of having a huge nail driven thru your wrists and hanging on the cross. He suffered this unspeakable agony because he loves us, and the only way sins could be forgiven was for his blood to be shed.
No matter what you may think, HE LOVES YOU! Always and forever. You only have to ask him to help you, and be very committed to living the kind of life he has set forth the standards for. He will help you!

Answer 8

I suppose its all in how you look at it. All based on perspective. The way i look at it is a whole list of things i've survived that most people havent.
At one point you can either be a victum or a survivor love. I choose the ladder.
Suicide is a perminent solution to a temporary problem. I'm more close to being Wicca then anything else.
But i've been through a whole heck of a lot in my life and looking back i'm glad I didn't choose suicide just because of a situation that i was in that i eventually got out of.

Answer 9

Well life was not meant to be easy. The thing about life is that you have to live with and play with the hand you were dealt. It's survival of the fittest. You have to learn to adapt to survive. You have to want to live. You have to find the strength within you to live. People who committ suicide are cowards and they are brave at the same time. They are weak because they did not stick it out. However, they went into the unknow which may be worse than the hand they were dealt with in this life. You never know. You have to stop dwelling on how bad your life is and make it better.

Answer 10

God did not mess up your life! People did (& you probably helped, even if you don't think so). So, if you don't want to see a therapist, then you need to form a plan of action to get a better life! Need a new job? Find one! Boyfriend/hubby is a creep? Dump him! Don't like your church? Find a new one! And so on, down the list. Remember, the Lord helps those who help themselves, but not those who just stand around and complain.

Good luck and try smiling more.