love...im confused!?

Question

..hello everyone...basically me and my ex went out for a couple of months but meanwhile we broke up because of different issues (i wont go into details otherwise it will be too long), but basically last month before i went on holiday he phoned and i was surprised because we hadn't been talking properly and he asked me how i was, what i was doing, whether i was seeing this boy...then that same night he texted me goodnite n apologised for all the things he did in the past that may not have pleased me. Then i went on hol and i just couldnt stop thinking about him, i even dreamt him nearly every night. However it's been a month and I haven't heard from him. The questions are 1) do you think he's over me and doesn't care about me anymore? 2)and do you believe that when you dream someone so often it's because they too are thinking about you?

Answer 1

First off, he's not over you, if he was, he wouldnt care if you were dating every guy in town, but he does. Secondly, if you are just going about your day and doing your thing and all of a sudden he pops up in your head, it is more than likely that at that same time he is thinking of you. Dreams are your subconcious working overtime. I guarantee you he was probably dreaming about you when he called you out of the blue. I say that life is too short and you never want to worry about the "what if's" of this world. So call him up, and be absolutely blunt and honest with him and see what happens. Whats the worst case scenario? you two DONT get back together? You guys arent together now, so you have nothing to lose. be brave and good luck!

Answer 2

To know whether the guy is over you or not is to ask the question to the guy & get the answer straight from himself. No point guessing around. If you are dreaming of the guy, it's not because he's thinking about you at the same time. He might be thinking of someone else. Maybe, you're the one who think about the guy too much. Or, you're really in love with this guy? Anyway, If you really like the guy, just tell him what you feel about him maybe both should give each other a chance. Good luck!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

It sounds like he was having a lonely night when he rang you, he might think he still loves you, but if he can't make the effort to contact you a lot more often than that, his love could only be skin deep ! But then again he could be thinking the same about you couldn't he !
The dreaming part is probably down to the fact that you think about him often, it would be nice to think that you could somehow connect to people you have strong feelings for, but sadly i can't see it my self.
I think you need to move on, when or if you do find that special person, you will go to the ends of the earth to be with them.

Answer 5

To answer your first question, yes, because you havn't heard from him I think you can definitely say he is over you. To your second question I think you are trying to read into your dream what you want and what you hope. No, you don't dream about someone because they are thinking of you, but most dreams are what is called 'wish fulfilment' - you dream of what you wish for. I think you can safely say that this relationship is over and you need to move on with your life. Stop thinking about him during the day and you won't dream about him at night! Good luck.

Answer 6

He might have just been moving on... settling the wrongs with you, cleaning his karma, closing the door on that part of his life, what ever you want to call it.

Or he was testing the waters to see if you stilled cared for him and since you don't contact him back he assumed that you are over him and don't want to try again.

Do you want to get back with him?????? If you do then contact him and ask if there is still a chance to rebuild the relationship.

Answer 7

There are different reasons why we dream. Sometimes dreams are our minds purging thoughts from our subconscious. That's what I would guess your dreams about your ex are.

If he apologized, he may be trying to kindle some kind of friendship. However, if you haven't heard from him, he probably doesn't want to go out with you again. If I were you, I'd work on moving on.

Answer 8

hello, I believe that you sometimes dream about what you have been thinking about before you go to bed it either happens in you subconscious or conscious. I believe that her may have figured out he was wrong in his ways and may be trying to make things right but remember he is just a man and may miss the sex. have fun and don't think to far into it and just try to be happy with who your are love.

Answer 9

Life is made up of bubbles of time. Your present bubble means that your ex is the centre of your focus. Eventually you will enter a new bubble. When you dream the chances are that your digestive system is overworked.

Answer 10

I think he was just fishing to see if you had moved on, he wants you to keep him in mind. Harshly but honestly if he isn't scared about phoning you up on a whim to ask you questions about what you're doing he's not too scared tyo ask you to try and make a go of it again. he's probably trying his luck on the singles scene and trying to keep you on the back burner.. sorry not nice but probably true.