My sons mother doesn't let me see my son. What can I do to see him more?

Question

I live about 52 miles from my son and if I call I don't get an answer. If I leave a message I get a call during the week with what did you want. I only see him on his birthday and christmas. I do hear when she says she needs money. I pay my child support on time and complete every month. What is the best thing to do to at least see him at least once a month? She said when he was younger that I was a disruption to him and he was confused. I worked around that but he is 10 now and I think he might understand somethings better if him and I got together. What do you think?

Answer 1

Keep paying the child support that you are required to pay. Keep acurate records of everytime you try to make contact(time,date,etc) Go to your local court and file for visitation. Every father is granted visitations. My ex husband never pays child support and according to the courts I still have to let him have visitation. If you already have a visitation order then you need to let the courts know that she is not cooperating.

Answer 2

You can go to court and get visitation with your sons every other weekend. Most courts have it where the parents have to meet halfway between the homes to "exchange" the kids. If she doesn't comply with the court orders, she will be in contempt and will be in some major sh*t. Either way, in most cases, kids need both parents and she's being very selfish. She's hurting to boys the most when she pulls this crap.

Answer 3

You have every right to see your child! If you pay child sapport then I would hire a lawer. If you dont want to take that action, than I would sit in front of her house and wait for her to come home one night and Demand to see your child. Dont make a stink in front of the kids, but fight for whats right! Even if you take him to the park or to Mcdonalds for a few hours I think she can at least let you do that!

Answer 4

Well since you pay your child support you can take her to court and ask for visitation rights. The only problem with that is you have to commit to it because the one day that you return him late or you don't show up she can get you arrested.

Answer 5

you are absolutely right, in thinking this way, but since your son is under her care, you will have to work with her first, convince her , that you won't cofuse, or disrupt him.
try to study your son's psychology, never talk any thing negative about his mother, be natural, and not too sentimental, or over-whelmed, be a good listener, and let the need to see you, or talk to you, from him also.
if your son insists with his mother about meeting you, talking to you, she will have to yield. in the mean time, be patient. it's in your son's interest after all, that he is not antagonised, in the conflict of two separated adults !

Answer 6

Man say i helped u have this baby i will call a juged .maybe he can spend some time with me 4 n a half days a week n u 4 n a half with u

Answer 7

If talking with her hasn't gone anywhere, send her a letter asking to work things out, saying you'd rather not go through the courts. If she doesn't work things out with you, or doesn't talk to you, call a lawyer and see what your options are.

Answer 8

you have to realize that he is just a kid and that you don't want to treat him like an adult cuz then he will lose his fun of being a child but you need to be part of his child hood as much as his mom. I mean the kid needs to know that he has a dad who loves him. I wouldn't take it to court cuz trust me on this one they will try anything to get that kid to stay with his mom especially if he goes to school close to were she lives. I think you need to talk to her about it but then if she just won't listen then you will have no choice but to take her to court.

Answer 9

You need to call your local DA and go thru the court. Investigate the original custody agreement. You have a right to see him use it.

Answer 10

Court!