First of all, do you KNOW they lie? I just had to ask since you admit to being a jealous person, so maybe you're a bit biased.
Let's say you do, there's simply no trust when there are constant lies around. Lying is so complex. There are all kinds of lies and people will lie in every aspect of life, be that in their jobs, their relationships, etc. I do believe it's a protection mechanism, and we all do it, you've done it. Its a fact of life...
Now, if you caught him in a lie that's jeopardizing your relationship (i.e. cheating), then he'll have to earn your trust again. It takes years to build-up trust and just a moment to shatter it. Decide if you're able to forgive and maybe some odd day, forget. if not, it's no use...
Good luck!
2006-08-18 05:13:22
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answered by cleo715 4
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It depends. Sometimes, it's used as a protection and sometimes, as to cover up things. Everyone lies. No one in this world doesn't lie. White lies are counted too.
And, you can't trust someone that you don't trust. It's a definite no. How can you bring yourself to trust him when you know he's lying?
2006-08-18 05:13:02
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answered by I don't care anymore. 2
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If you have those kind of trust issues after 7 years... .Get out babe. Go find a guy you can trust. You'll be much happier. Good luck
2006-08-18 05:09:16
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answered by Angel Eve 6
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If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Move on and get control of your jealous nature and then get into a new relationship with someone trustworthy.
2006-08-18 05:09:55
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answered by joandi_99 3
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depends on what they are lieing about... some men are just scaredy cats and they will lie about what they think is trivial to save face... if they are serious issues he is lieing about then you need to sit down and discuss why he can't deal with this with you... you are supposed to be the one he can turn to so you need to address why he does not feel comfortable doing so
2006-08-18 08:03:01
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answered by Goddess 1
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u cant trust if they lie. it's that simple
2006-08-18 05:16:42
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answered by Mae-Day 3
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look and see if they look down a lot
2006-08-18 05:07:53
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answered by anthony b 1
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