I know he is tired because he plays college football and they have 2 a day practices, its just that I miss him so much that I just want to talk to him but then when we talk to eachother we dont really say anything. He kinda makes me feel like I have to talk in order for him to say anything. I mean I dont have everything in the world to talk about so what should I do?
2006-08-18 04:33:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people are just not phone people. That's what makes long distance relationships really hard. My suggestion would be to keep your conversations brief. Talk about your days, say your I miss yous and I love yous and then get off the phone. When you put so much pressure on the phone conversation, everyone feels like they failed when you hang up. If you make it short and to the point, when you hang up you will be smiling and looking forward to the next call. Try not to put so much pressure on it all, relax, enjoy talking to each other and then hang up.
2006-08-18 04:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by aggiegirl1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is tired..... if you miss him that much after practice meet him at home and and give him a massage, cook him dinner, start him a shower, let him know that you ae there for him. I have had a relationship with ballplayers and they enjoy things like that.
On the other hand if he avoids you while you are trrying to do this he has found someone else.
2006-08-18 04:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you ask him and discuss with him about the relationship. Tell him how things are a lil different now, and you want to know if there is anything wrong. Just talk to him and discuss about the relationship.
2006-08-18 04:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be honest with him. Tell him exactly what you wrote here. You know that he is tired, but you need to talk because it helps you to feel close to him. Women like to talk, men don't (USUALLY). Ask him about his day and tell him about yours.
2006-08-18 04:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by lampoilman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he feels tired then try to make him feel relaxed and open with you be gentle with him then if your feeling intimate ask about his fantasies and tell him about yours.... if that doesnt spice things up then you guys probably dont have anything in common or he's just a boring clown.... GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-18 04:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tish Tish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open an encyclopedia at random and talk about whatever subject is on the page.
2006-08-18 04:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your guy works ask himhow his day when and if he says bad then say hey you'll have a better day tomorrow and say nice things to him like say that you love you or tell him about your day and how it went and thats my advice just for you have a nice day
2006-08-18 04:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by trimpey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find yourself a soccer player, Football players are dumb.... Soccer players can talk. *Cough* *Points at himself like me!*
2006-08-18 04:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by brazoian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your every day lives sport your familys
2006-08-18 04:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by nadia t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that he's playing college football and that he's with other women everynight.....
2006-08-18 04:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋