This woman won't stop everything we do pertaining to the kids she has to tell the kids how wrong we are especailly me. I have been in this family for 6 years and the whole family hates me. Everytime my 14 stepson goes to visit his gdf she calls me names and makes excuses for hating me tells him everything is my fault ex: husband got loan on house to do home repairs (house 92 yrs old never fixed) kids embarrassed, 2 girls 1boy shared bedroom. Now calls me a ***** for talking husband into getting loan on house, husband 's Comm. lic suspended and his wealthy father is paying the 500.00 mort. pymt until he gets back his lic.I didn't talk him into it he did it on his own. She says I do nothing but sit in my room or sit in front of the comp. getting fat. And that I'm the reason the kids are out of control. (they were terrible before I came into the family) So when he comes home he's terrible with me and hides it from his Dad. I'm ready to leave. What should I do?
2006-08-18 04:20:27 · 5 answers · asked by eyesad2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you & your husband need to talk to her & tell her to stop getting involved in matters that doesn't concern her. You & your hubby need to sit down & have a heart to heart talk(if you haven't already) & tell him how you are feeling.
2006-08-18 04:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by 3m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your husband and then the both of you have a family meeting with the ex included. Get it all out in the open and try to do it without a screaming match. Perhaps you could have a neighbor or someone neutral that has therapy background there. Also, make sure you all use the 'I' statements, not the 'you made me feel...' 'you do nothing...', this will do nothing but keep bad feelings going. If you all sit down and constructively tell each other how 'I feel this way when you do this' then you could get somewhere. I believe the best thing is to agree to disagree and do your best to understand each others feelings. Good luck!!!!
2006-08-18 04:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a job? Are you working at least 40 hours a week? If so, tell them to shut the hell up. If not, best go get one. You could really help your family out right now.
2006-08-18 04:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you're husband's not prepared to stand up to her on your behalf then he and the his family aren't worth the trouble...go
2006-08-18 04:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How OLD is this person? The word trash comes to mind.
2006-08-18 04:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Just call me sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋