we were supposed to get married and I thought he really loved me, but he threw it all away like I never meant anything to him. What should I do?
2006-08-18 03:54:02 · 6 answers · asked by sweetangel20_04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is leavind for basic and has been a lil bit of a jerk. I had had enough of him being rude so I walked out. I picked her up cuz she was crawling over the barrier that keeps her from running the house. I had to step over it to get to the door. I didn't want to kick her as I stepped over. I sat her down on the floor, went over the barrier, and left. I swear I was gentle, I would never hurt her. I love her like my own. My boyfriend and I were going to get married and I thought he really loved me. But he has a right to be mad. He said I reminded him of his baby's mama (she's crazy). He has apologized for that since but we are still not okay. We talked but not about anything important. I had a crisis and called him cuz I had no where else to turn. He was going to rush over to be with me, I told him not to cuz I know where we would end up. I am so confused, I want him back but I know I deserve better. We r under a lot of stress, I love him with all my heart, I don't want us to end.Plz help
2006-08-18 21:53:20 · update #1
It seems to me like he used his daughter as and excuse---talk to him and try and find out the real reason---but make sure you talk
2006-08-18 04:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's about as petty as my best-friend's little sister's fiance moving out because she was snoring too loud one night. It is cruel, I know but a lot of times ppl don't know how to say, "listen honey, I don't want to be with you anymore. I don't know why, I just don't feel the way I did!" So they say stupid a** stuff like, "you snore too loud so I'm leaving or you moved my daughter so the relationship is over."
Very likely that the relationship was over before you moved his daughter and before poor Val snored too loud. You should give him space because if you can honestly say that there were no circumstances surrounding your moving his daughter that might land you in court for domestic violence, then he's just a coward for not being able to tell you the real reason he had decided to leave you.
2006-08-18 12:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by ushouldnoidontplay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why would he be so upset if you just moved the daughter out of the way. is there more to this than your arent saying. i would need more information before i could give you an honest answer.
2006-08-18 11:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by missindy46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He sounds like a jerk.
2006-08-18 10:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kabu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on with your life, it wasnt ment to be , beside so you really want to be with someon who doesnt consider your feelings
2006-08-18 11:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u moved his daugter? how and to where?
2006-08-18 11:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋