2006-08-18 03:47:54 · 15 answers · asked by Tish Tish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Some people would say its not ok for anyone to do it... others would say its ok for everyone to do it. And there are some with the double standards.
My thought is this... the only wrong answer is the double standard. For me, I choose not to date 2 people at once. If you are dating 2 people at once, you aren't taking the time to really get to know one person. Let me ask you this... If you found a great guy or gal... and you liked them a lot, and you knew that you were a great person...and you deserve a shot with this person... but what happens if that person is dating 3 or 4 people...and maybe you have a mild first date? What is the likelihood of you rebounding from that? Not too good if the other 2 or 3 people had better first dates.
Dating multiple people at the same time, might be more fun... and you wont get bored as easy. But if you are looking for the right person... whether it be Mr. or Mrs. Right.... I wouldn't suggest it. Instead, take the time to get to know the person... go on a second date with someone that might have been borderline 2nd date quality, rather than dismissing them.
2006-08-18 04:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I by some skill do no longer think of that she's searching for a 'relationship' it appears like she's purely in it for the relaxing. You, on the different hand, seem to desire something extra. you're good which you would be able to no longer have a actual relationship whilst the different individual is cheating, whther it relatively is with a woman or guy is beside the point. i think of (once you're making plans on having a protracted term subject with this lady) you will desire to have a extreme communicate along with her and ascertain that the two certainly one of you're on a similar internet site. in my view, i've got confidence that she isn't. the undeniable fact that she persevered the different relationship exhibits that she's puzzled bout what she needs. She ought to actual resume the affair with out you understanding.
2016-10-02 06:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by covarrubia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said it's ok!???
Many people think it's not so wrong for a guy to date several girls as it is for a girl to date more than one guy, but it's the same! It's not OK for either of them.
2006-08-18 04:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by cifurtrue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it not ok for a girl to date more than one girl?
2006-08-18 03:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to date as many people as you want.
Now if you are talking about sex that's a different story and its not okay for men to sleep with multiple woman or woman to sleep with a ton of men.GROSS
2006-08-18 03:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who said that? I think it's wrong to date more than 1 person in general
2006-08-18 03:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mrsashko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever, dating different people is fine. It's when one commits himself (asks out) that it is wrong to play the field.
2006-08-18 03:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says a girl cant? Of course she will be called several names for it but just because they call you that does not make it so-
2006-08-18 03:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree if a girl has more than one boyfriend she gets calls all sorts of names but when a guy has lots of girlfriends he's a pimp....society is so unfair!!! especially tunapuna
2006-08-18 09:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Innocence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a double standard.. but of course it's not okay.. it's only okay for guys cause they say so. and u know they don't count for anything.. but if we allow them to do it then they'll continue to..
2006-08-18 03:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋