My best friends girlfriend is always flirting with other guys when he's not around, and he doesn't believe me...what should I do???????
2006-08-18 03:46:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do u have a phone? record her doin it and show him
2006-08-18 03:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point I would say that you have done all that you can do. You noticed the problem and in an effort to look out for your friend you brought it to his attention. If he doesn't believe you, you can't press the issue. If you do, you could possibly damage your friendship. Even though he will most likely find out in the end, if he has decided not to believe you he is going to have find out the hard way. Unfortunately we can get a little blind-sided in relationships choosing not to heed sound advice. You can do nothing further... some lessons have to be learned the hard way.
2006-08-18 10:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by blkprincess_d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a rough one you know love is blind when people are in love they are never objective. All they know is how they feel! They believe that because they are in to this person,that this person is in to them as well. However, some women are just flirts,they don't mean any harm it's their personality.
My feeling is that you should just let it go he will find out in his own time, if she really cares for him or not. Plus we look at this relationship more clearly when we are on the outside looking in. I know from my experience, my bf was cheating on me for a long time,I didn't see it until it was too late. But really I kinda knew all along I just didn't want to face it. Maybe your friend knows and he doesn't want to face the truth either. Life is too short to be with people who don't love and respect us. We deserve better...never settle for less.
2006-08-18 11:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by SpecialLdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should believe you, if not then he has a problem with denial.
Just tell him you are very serious and if he gets hurt in the end because she ends up cheating on him then don't look to you for comfort.
Or you can secretly get her to flirt with you and video tape it, or get a friend of yours to partake in the mission.
2006-08-18 10:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do a thing your friend might turn on you. A person like her gets caught sooner or later. Just kick back and be a good friend, cause he is going to need it when he finds out the truth.
2006-08-18 10:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some evidence.Find a way to get her on tape(Audio or Video),and show him.If you cant,then dont meddle in their affairs any longer.Your friend will soon side with her,and you will get a new enemy.Women have a way of turning their men against the people that care about them.
2006-08-18 10:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sit him down and tell him**again** and just be like "this is the truth, whether you wanna believe me or not, she constantly flirts with other guyz when your not around, if you don't believe me now, and talk to her about, you'll be even more hurt in the long run, so do w/e but i'm being completly honest with you"
hope i helped.
2006-08-18 10:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already told him, let it go. Maybe he understands her behavior. Maybe he'll have to learn the hard way. Be there for him when that happens. Just don't say. "I told you so".
2006-08-18 10:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to tell him again if he still doesnt' believe you then just forget it eventually he'll find out and you can say i told ya so
2006-08-18 10:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by snorfgoogle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tape or record her doing it one time if she denies it show her the tape and if she still keeps doing it after that then play it to him
2006-08-18 10:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you did your part of the job. you told him. the rest is up to him. wether he believes you or not is not something you can force upon him.
2006-08-18 10:53:32 · answer #11 · answered by mint tea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋