My girlfriend and I were discussing lesbian sex after watching real sex last night. And both of us are curious as to why lesbians use dildos if they do not like men? After all a dildo is modeled after a mans penis.
2006-08-18 03:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by shizbomb WMD 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Most lesbians dont like men, not because they have a penis but because of their personalit and who they are. Most feel that they simply can't connect with a man in a personal way therefore they don't want to connect in a physical manner. Many actually have male friends but nothing more than friendship. Being lesbian doesn't mean you dont want intercourse. I think if men were just penis's and nothing else many lesbians would love to be with them lol. In addition many people homo or other wise siply like to experiment with toys, they can be fun.
2006-08-18 03:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by tweetybird3083 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians like men. Lesbians have male friends. Lesbians don't hate men....well, some do, but so do some straight women.
Whew. Now that we have that out of the way.
Where is it written that lesbians don't enjoy penetration? A lot of us do, and the fact is, the toy might look like d*ck, but it doesn't have a man attached at the other end. We are not sexually or romantically inclined towards men. And those toys aren't just shaped like that. They come in all shapes and colors, so if the image is distressing to the lesbian lady, she can choose from a veritable smorgasboard of types and textures.
Some of us really like penetration. We enjoy feeling it. That doesn't mean we just need a guy.
2006-08-18 14:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude were you watching to straight women doing each other? Or did you go out and buy actual lesbian porn? There are so many different reasons and yes its tired some to answer these questions. Sometimes women like dildos because of penetration, and all of them come in the fashion of whats between your legs... I'm sure you know sometimes you finish first with your girl, she isn't quiet done yet... Then what? Well ours don't go limp. They come up always, they aren't tired, And you can buy them exactly to suit your woman, they don't have to just deal with one size fits all.... And some lesbians don't even use them....
2006-08-18 12:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditto what princess said...if I only had a dollar for how many times I've heard this question!! I'm assuming, as you apparently are straight, that you don't know any lesbians? because you're stereotyping...
#1. most lesbians I know, myself included, don't "dislike" men. we are simply not sexually attracted to them . I have lots of male friends.
#2. dildos really don't have anything to do with wanting a penis. it's about penetration and how it feels. they don't all "look" like a penis.
#3. we don't ALL use them, either. I did with my previous partner (and it wasn't "all that"), but my current partner and I never use them...
2006-08-18 11:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a dollar for every time someone asked about this I could retire. Not all lesbians use toys or dildos. I do not. Nor does my partner.
2006-08-18 10:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were obviously watching porn meant for straight guys. Lesbians may or may not use dildos, but one thing I know for sure, lesbian sex is way more intimate.
2006-08-18 13:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians like penetration. Either with fingers or with toys. It has nothing to do with the penis itself....nor does it have to do with liking sex with a man. It goes much deeper than that. The penetration feels good....the chemistry is better with women.
2006-08-18 11:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by crazygrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There not lesbians because they dont like penis's it becuz they feel they can't connect with a man they can do with a women because they share the same emotions.
2006-08-18 10:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by brackens318 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that I could never connect with a male on a relationship/ sexual basis but I have many male friends.There is no attraction. But with females there is and when using toys we don't think about men, we think about each other.
2006-08-18 12:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by sexymami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes exactly and why do sad lonely old pervy virgin men use rubber pussssyyssssss when they aint ever going to get a real one?
2006-08-18 14:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋