I asked my boyfriend of 3 years if he loved me and he said," Yes, I love you and I still love my ex wife whom I divorced and who is now dead, so what does that tell ya?"
Does he love me or not? I always get this answer from him.
2006-08-18 03:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by moon_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have been with my boyfriend for three years and he never tells me that he loves me and when I ask him if he does he says the same responce.
2006-08-18 04:03:17 · update #1
," Yes, I love you and I still love my ex wife whom I divorced and who is now dead, so what does that tell ya?"
2006-08-18 04:04:10 · update #2
HE LOVES YOU BUT HE IS NOT OVER HIS WIFE YET BUT IT IS RUDE FOR HIM TO SAY THAT TO YOU.
2006-08-18 03:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a problem with your question,, read this(I asked my boyfriend of 3 years,,) is your boyfriend is 3 years old??? if so then how could he got married and divorced,, if you mean that 3 years ago you have aksed your boyfriend,, that he loves you,, then what you do in these 3 years,,, yet thinking to ask some one that he loves you or not???amazing,,,what else i say,, 3 years ,, a whole 3 years u could't understand that he loves u r not,, are u trying to make us fool (as I mention in the start of my answer)??
2006-08-18 10:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by mani cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why analyze his love for you? Just be happy with him and make him happy as well. Love one another the best you can. As far as him still loving his ex wife whom passed away, just be supportive of this because I'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot you would want him to be supportive of you. Love is love and no matter what it will remain in your heart for a lifetime.
2006-08-18 10:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, he loves his ex wife enough to want to keep telling his current girlfriend over and over again. He obviously has some hang ups if he feels the need to mention this to you.
My advice.... Next time you "feel" like asking him if he loves you (which i think is incredibly stupid), tell him that you know he loves his ex wife... and thats not the question.. the question is whether or not he loves you. Tell him that you aren't expecting him to STOP loving his ex (deceased) wife, but you are asking him to love you. He should understand that you aren't in a competition with her, and that you simply want to know that he cares about you as deeply as you care about him. Constantly bringing up the ex wife is potentially damaging to your relationship. While she may live in his memories, you dont need to be nagged about her esteemed position as number one in your heart.
Personally, I can understand that he loved another woman before you... derrr. Thats obviously ok... What I can't understand is why this tard has to keep making you feel bad (or at least ackward) everytime you seek to reaffirm how meaningful your relationship is. Personally... i think your BF has a few issues to work out.
2006-08-18 11:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i'm really not sure. It seems like he loves you but that he's still hung up on his deceased wife too. Do you know if the two of you have any similarities with eachother? Maybe you need to speak to him and tell him to be honest about his feelings for u and u alone.
2006-08-18 10:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by krs1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to him that you understand he loves his ex wife.... But he should feel a different kind of love for you,,,, He should be IN LOVE with you.... maybe ask him that next time... ask him if he is in love with you.....
2006-08-18 10:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by TommysGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving an ex dead wife shows his commitment for love.he value relationship in life,know to maintain.if he says he loves you,he is true.
2006-08-18 10:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by yours h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he loves you and he also loves a memory. it's up to you to erase the memory.. replace it with a new one! (he doesn't love his ex-wife, he just loves her memory)
2006-08-18 10:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by fran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says like this every time then this means he is playing with you
2006-08-18 10:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by kulbir_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It tells me that you are very silly!
2006-08-18 10:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋