Why is it that many Asian Americans seem to go through an identity crisis upon moving to the United States?

Question

This is strictly based on my observation--- but it seems that Asians (especially of a younger generation) have a hard time just being Asian. What do I mean by being asian? Well, I simply mean upholding family values, religion, etc of their culture. I am bi-racial (half asian).. and I've had no problem adapting, but it almost seems to me that many asians have to pick another race when they're living here. I'd really like to see them just be themselves for a change, and hopefully I can get some asians to respond.

Answer 1

I'm not Asian, but perhaps it has much to do with the way Asians are (or in some cases, are not) portrayed in the US media.

Traditional Asian culture sometimes doesn't translate well into a society that is shown by media to be more liberal and less conservative. However, please do realize that there are Americans who are just as traditional as many Asians. Just because they aren't highlighted in the media doesn't mean that they don't exist.

It could also be that the younger generation doesn't see race as the older generation does. Take, for example, all the white kids who want to be like black rap stars----and they're not the only ones. Native American teens also identify with this culture. Maybe its more of a generational thing than a cultural thing.

Answer 2

Koreans (I can't comment much for all asians, but they most asisns do share some similarities in culture) do seem to go through a 'culture shock'. I lived in Korea for 5 yrs and I heard about this from many of them. Korean tends to be a very family orientated culture with respect for elders and a sacrifical attitude being important. In the U.S. they come in direct contact with an opposite mindset. Their kids are caught in the middle, parents don't want them to lose their asian values, but the children what to the fun stuff and easy way they see their ameican friends enjoying.....Furthermore, many Koreans are in the U.S. to make money and nothing more. When they made their fortune they intend to go back to the homeland so they have no intention of assimulating to the culture or even trying to understand it....so when their kids start to adjust and like the US, conflict arises..........of course, it is more complicated than this I'm sure, but this must part of it...

Answer 3

It happens to any race. Look at Eminem he's a white man who thinks he's black. Look at Tiger Woods a black man who thinks he's white. Jackie Chan a martial artist who thinks he's funny. Everyone has identity crisis.

Answer 4

Perhaps they become disoriented.