2006-08-18 03:02:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What started it was we were at a John Valby show....from there we wentto a strip club. I bought him a lap dance since I got a little crazy on stage with Valby and the girls. Well after his lap dance a few drinks we were sitting with some ppl we met, before you know it between my boyfriend and some other girls boyfriend they spent clost to $140. on the shot girl for us. This was a first time for me. The shot girl did her thing back and forth then got the three of us going. Later on in the car he asked if I enjoyed it, and said it looked as if I was having a good time. He asked if I wanted to try a threesome, I was shocked. I then told him if I did say yes it would be my choice and my rules. Our relationship is far from boring, meaning our sex life. Do I go for it or not....im so confused.
2006-08-18 06:14:12 · update #1
Answer him as honestly as you can about weather you want to or not.
2006-08-18 03:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by jpcbbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up and really has no respect for you because a smart guy stays awy from this subject. Because it basically says to a girl you are not enough for me, you don't fill my heart, whatever. Now if a couple has been together a while it might just come up as a what if but it sounds as if your boyfriend just asked. And anyway, it's usually the girl who initiates all of this because even if it is going to "just happen" it has to be someone close to her emotionally and someone she feels comfortable with. Because girls are caring creatures and you could just put any two girls in front of a guy and say let's do it. And since it's usually one of the girl's friends I bet he has someone in mind and I would think about which one he has the hot's for.
2006-08-18 10:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say ok honey, you let me pick your hot best friend or brother of cousin, any male thats sexier than him, until he gets the point. However if you have to question why he wants one all jokes aside, maybe something other than sexual indescetion is lacking in your relationship
2006-08-18 10:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, take one baseball stick or metal rod and put tht inside his a$$$$$$$$. dont worry swety u get another lovable one soon.who loves only u n u u n u u n u u n u u n u u n u forever.thnx.
2006-08-18 10:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by vinay bhatkar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend who asked me that once. Surprise, surprise he even found another girl for "us" to be with. I told him OK, right after we have a 3some with another guy and you do to him what you want me to do to her.
Well the 3some never happened and I was looking for a new boyfriend.
2006-08-18 12:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by vickit447 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with yourself.If you do not want to share your body with another person, you will say no.If you want to have a threesome you will say yes.It is up to you.Some people do; others never do not have a threesome.This is about culture,open mind,moral values,etc.For me I will say to my Lady,no,never.
2006-08-18 13:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his walking papers...and tell him to go out and find some Siamese Twins!
2006-08-18 10:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hell no. cause a threesome means no respect from a boy to a girl.just leave him and find some1 else
2006-08-18 10:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by The Game 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no comes to mind but i don't have a b/f nor do i want one
2006-08-18 10:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb!!
2006-08-18 10:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Let your self go. It's great.
2006-08-18 10:08:47 · answer #11 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋